My friend has the same crush as me the problem is that I have not told her and he is kind of alot flirting with me. what should I do?
2007-02-25 13:14:20 · 12 answers · asked by gutt12@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is your friend , talk to her about it.
2007-02-25 13:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend sees him flirting with you she might not like him any more or it could just make her jealous and angry. If I were you I would sacrifice this guy for another crush. It is just a crush and he is not worth getting in a fight over or risking your friendship. You will find someone else you like trust me. As for the guy flirting with you, slowly back away by just not talking to him as much and he might stop liking you. If you are not willing to sacrifice this crush though help your friend find a new boy and help her find a boy that likes her. She will be so happy with this new guy she will forget her old crush. Well I would probably go with the first option though because it is less risky. Hope this help and good luck.
2007-02-25 21:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your friend if she is a good one she won't get made, you guys could talk over the phone and say he hot lol. That what I do. If he wants you go out with you make sure she feels ok with it ok.
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2007-02-25 21:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend now so there wont be any confusion. That is a difficult sitation. If she is really your friend then she will understand and if he is flirting with u then he has something for u not her.
2007-02-25 21:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by purple_mustang_girl08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How good of a friend is she. Do you think the friendship will end over the boy. If so don't bother with him. Find someone else. You now her. Talk to her about it if you think she is open to.
2007-02-25 21:18:54 · answer #5 · answered by btjuana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who and what is more important in your life. A guy you want to get to know more, or a friend who you love to hang out with. Who is more important?
2007-02-25 21:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her as soon as possible that you are interested in the same guy, so that way if things work out - or you hook up with the guy it is not a huge shock to her. (i wish my friend had done this)
2007-02-25 21:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by meenie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell ur friend a.s.a.p. She needs to know if she's ur friend. U don't want a crush to ruin ur friendship.
2007-02-25 21:19:48 · answer #8 · answered by kissable britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to date him and ask your friend if its okay.First ask him who he likes better then if he likes you go out with him your friend will be alright.
2007-02-25 21:18:33 · answer #9 · answered by Butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
c if the guy likes u... and maybe u should tell ur friend u like taht guy.. if shes really ur friend ull figure something out
2007-02-25 21:18:11 · answer #10 · answered by Lyzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋