this is the second time we are going out.he doesnt really talk to me that much. he says he is going to beat up 1 of my guy friends bcuz i hang out with him to much. he thinks i flirt with him, but i dont. he flirts with this 1 girl all the time he is around her, even in front of me. now all of a sudden he started to act all shady.i want to break up with him but i cant bcuz i love him. he says he loves me but im not sure. some people say thet he is only going out with me bcuz of my body.his bother told me that some times that he only goes out with girls just to go out with them.i really love him though, but i really dont know if he feels the same way. i dont want to brake up with him bcuz i dont want to miss him. i dont want to be single!!! help what should i do!!!!
2007-02-25 13:08:45 · 4 answers · asked by luky c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u want to brake up with him than just tell him that it's over and go out with the guy that he wants to beat up sense he keeps on flirting with that girl in front of u.
2007-02-25 13:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, if you don't want to break up with someone just becasue you don't want to be single, then you're making the wrong decision.
If this guy is just going out with you for your body, like some of your friends say, then you're probably really pretty, and you can probably do better than some guy who can't even spare you the courtesy to talk honestly to you.
And anyone who tries to control your life--i.e. telling you that you can't hang out with your friend because he's jealous--is definitely going to get worse. Get out of the relationship while you still can, because it will only get worse.
Find a man who really appreciates you and who is secure enough to know that you'll stay faithful to him. Don't let someone tell you how to live (and he's doing EXACTLY what he told you not to, the hypocrite).
I know it's hard, but if he loved you as much as you love him, then he wouldn't treat you this way. Find someone who is capable of loving you back.
2007-02-25 21:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by megan_of_the_swamp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a relationship like that and it is no fun at all.....find a guy that can take you having guy friends, thats the best thing that i ever did and it really helps the relationship..a relationship is built on trust...ask yourself if he trusts you..ask him that....sit down with him and tell him about how you feel with the situation...if that doesn't work get out of the relationship.
2007-02-25 21:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by the GIRL!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM!!!! he is obviously no good to u! i know its hard to lose some one u luv, believe me i would know! but trust me there r plenty of guyz out there that would want to be with u. trust me, ul say it now that u don't want to be single, but in time ul be saying i love being single! forget that guy and move on with ur life, ul find someone better dont worry!
2007-02-25 21:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by sxybiitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋