I' crazy about him & I KNOW he feels the same way about me...?

Question

But I am so scared that we are waiting to long. We never talk out right about our feelings its just like its a known fact. We say little things to cement it but I want to feel his touch sooo bad, and Im not being nasty. I just want to feel him hold me or kiss me even on the forehead! I dont care. Im shy so I cant be the one who gets it started, so what I need from you guys is to tell me...Well it ever happen? And if he does kiss me what if he doent like it? What should I do?

Answer 1

maybe he feels the same way

if he likes you, he wont care how u kiss

Answer 2

There is almost always one common denominator n how things get started: Tickling :P Try tickling him and odds are he'll do it back.
I know that if you two really are meant for eachother, it'll happen eventually. Me and my friend are both waaay shy, but T the dance we were all over eachother (Sorta, not like in a bad way :P).
So, jsut see what hapens, roll with it and see what happens! Only time will tell!

And if your a bad kisser, don't sweat it. Either it won't realy matter, and life wil go on, or he'll be mad or somethign in which case that's a strong sign that it's not going to work if he is willign to get into problems about somethign that unimportant, he's not worth it.

Answer 3

I'm kinda in a similar dilemma myself. I mean..i'm not so worried about the kissing part but..this guy and i like each other but nothings happening and your afraid to try and push anything with him to get things together cuz..your scared it might screw things up! Like..you want him to ask you out or something but..he's not.
or..at leaste thats what my problem is. Ah! and yes its frustrating so..i feel for ya hunny.

I guess the best thing to do is stick it out, keep flirting with him and keep him interested in you. Maybe when you two are alone and have hung out or something, at the end of it give him a kiss! Maybe he's just as shy and unsure of what to do as you are. If he kisses you back..all systems go! And you'll be in the clear!

best of luck to ya girliee

Answer 4

Girl, i know you're shy but if you really do have such strong feelings for him you'll come out and tell him how you feel anyway. I felt that way about someone too and I didn't gather up the courage to tell him until I lost him... don't end up the same way as me. He might be thinking the same thing as you are. He is possibly to scared to tell you and is waiting for you to make a move. In that case nothing will ever happen.

Answer 5

Ok first off take a breathe and chill out! From my experiances it could still happen but if he doesnt do anything soon then u need jump, take and risk and tell him u want to be more then friends and hope to god u fly! Because i was in the same situation and we went out and a few days after that we broke up cuz it flt too weird cuz we waited to long but now we r back to where we started (except tat we talk and laugh on the fone) and he tells me he likes me alot! SO just wait alittle longer and see if anything changes but if need u probably going to have to take the first step!

**God Bless**

Answer 6

If you KNOW for certain that this guy likes you, it shouldn't be difficult to make the first move, as you would know he wouldn't turn you away. You say you are crazy about him, so do something about it, sitting and waiting is what you will be doing if you don't step up to the plate. And will it ever happen for you two, if it was meant to happen, it will. If not, there are alot more out there that may be a better fit for you.

Answer 7

If he likes you and hasn't acted on it he is probably wanting to. He is probably second guessing himself and telling himself that you wouldn't really be interested like that. You're going to have to get up the courage and help him out or it might never happen. You have to show him that you want it. You could try hinting at it, but if he's like most guys he won't get it. You may just have to tell him fairly straightforward, or at least make it painfully obvious. No mixed signals.

At least give him lots of opportunities and excuses to do it. Get him alone somewhere and stand really close to him and stare at his eyes. If he has any guts at all that should give him the opportunity he needs to do it. You can do it.

And don't worry about if he'll like it or not, he will. ;)

Answer 8

i'm top there with you. 7dpo as of at present and intensely demanding to objective. DH and that i've got been TTC for 7-8 months now and each TWW gets longer and longer it sort of feels. I additionally hate scrutinizing each and every symptom i've got been having. I comprehend that many of the indications i'm showing additionally are the comparable ones i'm getting some days till now AF. i'm going to shop my hands crossed for you and DH- please do the comparable for us. solid success and many toddler dirt!!

Answer 9

Be patient and let things happen naturally. The longer you wait the better it feels when you do finally kiss. These things happen at their own pace, especially if you are young. The anticipation phase that you are in right now can be very wonderful, just let things unfold.

Answer 10

Next time you see him walk up and give him a huge cuddle and say how nice it is to see him again. Make your move soon and don't wait too long or someone might come and take him before you. I don't understand how you can really like this guy and your not willing to make a move.

Answer 11

WHY can't you be the one to kick it up a notch?

How do you KNOW he feels the same? Nothing's happened, and if it were mutual, and you both somehow know...mindreading, I guess...then why is your relationship still where it is?

Look, you like him, and you THINK he likes you too, then SAY SOMETHING. Don't play these silly head games with yourself and DO something about it. SPEAK UP!!! YOU ask him out.