my problem...
it seems like an impossible goal to find a woman that dresses and looks nice who also has values and morals.. i am almost 21 and already express the desire to be with a commiting partner who i can put trust in instead of sleeping around at clubs and bars.. it seems that in the category of women i have explained, they only want short term non commited relationships.. or they do not have integrity, honesty, faithfulness, etc..
What age should i expect women to be more committed and play less games..
2007-02-25 12:58:19 · 10 answers · asked by ytrhouston 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it's where you are meeting them. Meeting a person at a club..that's just "for fun". How about meeting someone at church or at school? Someone who is into school or going to church must have morals. You are probably just going out with the wrong type of girls. Young women your age it seems are a lot more into promiscuity and drinking. I'd suggest going out with older woman..23 and up because they are done partying and drinking and are looking for something more substantial. However, it entirely depends on the girl. Asian girls for the most part don't sleep around and are conservative. Consider going out with other races. The older you are the wiser you become.....
2007-02-25 13:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the woman. There are women who "settle down" more quickly than others. But you're right, it's not that common anymore. You need to look for a woman in places other than clubs/bars. Try a volunteer program or a religious place.
Just hang in there. When the time comes you'll find the perfect woman. Good luck!
2007-02-25 13:05:00 · answer #2 · answered by gigagiggle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I think you have made some bad choices. I do not know any women who dont want a loving committed relationship. At twenty one a woman is typically pretty mature. Keep looking and reevaluate your taste in women. Bars are a no no for relationship seekers.
2007-02-25 13:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by maxxmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Recently men have made it seem like being promiscuous is a desired quality. Your problem is not the age group you are looking at, but where you are looking. Try a more classy venue rather than a bar or club. Try a coffee shop or something equally low key.
2007-02-25 13:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by apple_dax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's b/c you're right - alot of younger women have less morals than women there age had before. You probably won't find that in someone that young, you should start to see it in maybe someone in their late 20's. They're just trying to enjoy life and think it's all about drinking and partying. Not all, but a large portion of them.
2007-02-25 13:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of moral women. You must be going to the wrong places - like clubs
2007-02-25 13:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by True 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant be thinking about age, every women is different, as for me i look for commited relationships,sleeping around is for whores
2007-02-25 13:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mail-order your bride from another country. US is about freedom, not morals and that means everybody.
2007-02-25 13:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
any age, it's just they're raised differently.... it's how they wanna live, but 22-24 is okay....
2007-02-25 13:02:01 · answer #9 · answered by Chickadee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just hear about it more these days.
2007-02-25 13:01:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋