when im sad or upset he never comes and comforts me and he never says he loves me also when some one treats me like crap he never stands up for me it seems like he never wants to spend time with me either....i dunno what to do because i REALLY like him. i know it seems like he dont care but there are some things he does that makes me believe that he does care! I just dunno what to do!!!!! i'm tired of feeling hurt!! i still wanna be with him though!!
2007-02-25 12:33:01 · 9 answers · asked by tiNkErBeLL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a case of you either have to be honest with him and talk to him about how you feel or make the decision on wether this is what you want in a relationship. I was in a relationship like this for years and finally spoke to him about it but he didn't want to change so i ended it. All you can do is be honest, they can't read minds and neither can you so talk and see how it goes.
2007-02-25 12:38:17 · answer #1 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him.
My bf was like this and I kept holding on to those little things that were good and forgiving him all the time. But you deserve someone who makes you feel special and loved, bottom line.
No matter how many ways I tried to show him I cared about him, or talk about how he made me feel, or the times he saw me cry... it was never long before he turned back to the same behavior.
Thats how he is, he will not change, be like me and move on!!!
2007-02-25 12:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by Kaitelia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve someone who will treat you better. If you were my g/f. I would stand up for you , and comfort you when your hurting. That is what a real man does for the woman he loves.
2007-02-25 12:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by kkazman32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"You can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink." Your not going to change him if he doesn't do those things now he is not going to do them. So if you want to continue to stay with him then you are going to have to stop complaining about him not doing these things that you want him to do.
Your best bet is to realize that you are worth more than this and move on to find someone that is going to want to be with you when you need them to be.
2007-02-25 12:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth your time if he won't show that he cares about you. If he puts up a fight if you suggest that you might leave, then you can stay. Otherwise, you're just throwing time away with someone who doesn't deserve you.
2007-02-25 12:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by tres_maqnifique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON!!!!! There's plenty of other people out there for you. You are complety throwing yourself out there for him, and he's a butt!!!! Or, you can just ignore him, stop calling him all the time, and let him come to you.
2007-02-25 12:39:06 · answer #6 · answered by Chickadee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try finding someone who wants to be with you. Fair weather friends are easy to get, but they're not good at relationships.
2007-02-25 12:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be with him. get with anoter guy right afteer u brake up with him to try to make him jealous!! thts what i wud do. if he is jealous and cares enough then he will feel heartbroken and try to get back wit u.
2007-02-25 12:37:59 · answer #8 · answered by Lolly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well i would tell him how I feel i would just sit down and talk.
and if he says hell change blive him and if he dont then just be all i lvoe you alot but idk how to handel this hurt anymore kk
2007-02-25 12:42:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋