i found a pretty girl, who's really nice and smart etc wtc, all the things I'd want, but then since we hooked up, my interest has waned, why?
2007-02-25 12:32:45 · 17 answers · asked by choco taco 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're learning that sometimes the having is not so good as the wanting.
2007-02-25 12:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way sadly...
i don't know about you but i love challenges that's why i always fall for the guys with girlfriends that are absolutely unattainable... then as soon as they break up and start hinting at me i start to forget why i even liked them in the first place.
I've learned that i love the challenge of trying to get someone but as soon as i feel that i have them its over. I did what i was trying to do and I'm done...
its sad really but what Ive learned helps is just think for a while about what you truly want in a girl.. what do you love in a girl.. otherwise you can fall for someone but as soon as they come around you will be heading for the front door.
think.
2007-02-25 12:40:31 · answer #2 · answered by curls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you were physically attracted to her and when you got her you found out she had nothing that you were looking for in a female. Good Luck with ya gurl. But if you need someone to talk to, to get good advice email me sometime at babythickness_thickmami@yahoo.com
2007-02-25 12:38:41 · answer #3 · answered by Thick-N-Cute 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just don't know how to commit in relationships yet. It's that simple. Try mixing things up and going on cool dates (instead of just plain old dinner dates or movie flicks).
2007-02-25 12:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by tres_maqnifique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to agree with the others...the chase is over...find someone who doesn't give in so quickly but makes you continue to chase...and maybe you'll be happier longer.
2007-02-25 12:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you like trying to win a girl over more than you like having a girlfriend.
2007-02-25 12:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by marcosarroyos2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its the same problem alot of guys have....they want the chase but when they catch the girl, it's no longer intriguing.
2007-02-25 12:37:05 · answer #7 · answered by Perplexed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thrill of the chase is over.
You just need to grow up. That's all.
2007-02-25 12:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the 'i want it but cant have it' effect. Once you know she's attainable, you wonder how many other people have dated her. Then you want to move on because you're like me. You want to see how many people you can 'charm'.
Its not unusual. Its very normal.
2007-02-25 13:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its typical. it happens to everyone theres no avoiding it. its like a new car you like it at first then you start getting used to it and it starts to wear down on you till you want a new one. i guess its just different time spans where people get sick of whoever they are with.
2007-02-25 12:37:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋