My boyfriend of 2 years can't seem to stop talking to his ex-girlfriend. She's been a problem from day one, texting him and trying to contact him by every single internet means imaginable. She even tried to sleep with him a couple of months after he and I got together. So obviously, I have QUITE a problem with his continued contact with her. It's been 2 YEARS and I found out today that not only did he kindly remember her birthday, he remembered her NUMBER so that he could text her well wishes. Now bear in mind that I'm not allowed to speak to my exes. At all. He made it clear early on that he's no cool with it, and I have honored that, alienating people who could still be my friends. And this has been an ongoing issue. I've confronted him several times after learning he was messaging her online and been rebuffed with his promises to stop. Yet he still goes out of his way to speak to her. Is my anger righteous and should I say anything? Again?
2007-02-25 12:20:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He broke up with her to be with me, so I can't understand how he could still have a thing for her. Unless he just doesn't want to burn bridges in case our relationship goes way south...
2007-02-25 12:25:49 · update #1
wow. tough one. it should be reciprocal. you cant talk to his exes he cant either, specially the one that want to sleep with him.
2007-02-25 12:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, it just kind of like "interfered" R/S and happened that "she" is ur bf ex. Well, one got to be fair means got to be.. why not get both of them out and make things clear? Its always better to clear doubts earlier than sorry. Good Luck and all the best!
2007-02-25 20:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by Its me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is definately not fair and especially after being together for 2 years. Either he gives you the same respect or break it off.
2007-02-25 20:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by BrutalNerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well clearly he has some lacking braincells or something of the sort..
tell him you are not going to pursue this relationship if you 2 arent completely insync you cant speak to your exs.. neither can he..
basically it will come to a choice eventually anyways, you or her, so just tell him to choose or else you are out
this guys does not deserve you
and if he promises but doesnt stick to him he really isnt worth your time
2007-02-25 20:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by curls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you have a right to be angry. maybe he hasn't gotten over her yet. tell him straight outthat he better stop.
2007-02-25 20:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋