Did I do the right thing by letting go?

Question

I used to really like this guy, and I was getting mixed signs. I had been in a "sort of, kind of" relationship before, and it turned out horrible, so I was EXTRA careful this time, 'cause I most definitely didn't want to go through it again. But, as you all probably know, it's not that easy to stay on the curb and off the street. So I jumped in, and then I started getting all these signals telling me that he liked me too. But then he would act as if I was the last thing on his mind, if I was on it at all. I realized how far I was in, and I got scared that I would lose everything like I did before. So I tried so hard to get over him, and now that I have, he's been talking to me more often and he seems kind of interested. Did I make the right decision? If I didn't, how do I fix it?

Answer 1

I think maybe you made the right decision, but a little too fast. But if you really feel more like you avoided much heartbreak because you are so sure he would have messed with your feelings/emotions ahead of time! good job! I had to do that once and spent alot of time wondering if it was the right thing to do. I think it is, because someone like him should make up his mind. If he can't, then deifnitely move on because maybe he just wasn't meant for you. I realized that and now I catch on quick. good luck!

Answer 2

You're not alone, I'm in this situation now too. I let everything that caused the problem go away, because I didn't want to jump back in and get my mind all screwed up. When I started dating, people were saying all kinds of rumors about me, and they still are. That's why, I'm gonna avoid dating for a while. You should too, and good luck. ;)

Answer 3

yes