I have a 3 year old son. He always throws tantrums at daddy and cries every morning when I am not there to prepare him for childcare. In short, he makes daddy real pissed and has to give him the rod to make him stop. What can I or daddy do to curb this kind of problem? I can't simply quit my job to look after him.....
2007-02-25 11:59:30 · 5 answers · asked by blurry 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
I would silt down with him and try to explain to him that daddy wants to help. and that you have to go to work , so daddy has to do this for you. have your husband take him out just the 2 of them so he can bond with his dad.
2007-02-25 13:57:18 · answer #1 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks such as you're already doing the main stunning ingredient, you're giving her a trip, that's what maximum mavens propose. when you consider which you're a nanny and little doubt you are going to come across a rash of undesirable behaviors in each and all of the little ones you handle, i think of you may desire to make investments in the Nanny 911 e book. i've got flipped with the aid of it and it has various fairly stable strategies for all varieties of subject concerns. this is complicated to discipline a toddler who's father and mom are not being consistent with what you're attempting to do. Is there a manner which you will take a seat her father and mom down and tell them you have to be all on the comparable web site because of the fact what's happening now could be no longer working? i could additionally tell them that her habit's possibly to get a heck of plenty worse as quickly as that new toddler comes alongside in case you do no longer nip this in the bud now.
2016-10-01 23:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by czech 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Give him the rod."?
Does that mean he beats him with a stick?
If so no wonder he wants his mommy so bad.
Maybe daddy should do more fun things with him to get his attention away from missing mommy, then he may even look forward to time alone with daddy....even though he may throw his little tantrum for missing mommy.
He's three, he misses mom.
2007-02-25 13:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by baldy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you cold prepare him the night before that daddy will be taking you to day care in the morning. Try not to change the routine if it's dad make it always dad. If you are the one who picks him up from day care remind him that you will be there to pick him up as soon as you get off work.Have him help the night before getting everything ready that he will need the morning. Maybe you could make sure that you spend a little time with him each morning before you go to work if this is possible with your work schedule. If not maybe you could make a deal with him that if he gets ready to go to day care without a fuss that you will spend one on one time with him before bedtime.
2007-02-25 12:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what that's like, my lil cuz is 3, my god, he does the same thing, what you do is try to do something fun with him, let him something that makes him happy, drive him around in the car to settle him down, the littlest things they like, can really help.
2007-02-25 12:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by Shopping Lover =]] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋