okay, i told this guy i liked him( i have liked for awhile). ealier i heard and he tolod me he liked me! so i told him and then he got all shy and isn't talking to me anymore!then i told him i liked him just as a friend and he got all sad! what should i do! i really like this guy, ( i think it might be love, every time i think of loosing him i cry, and every time i am around him i am the happiest person in the world) is it love?)
2007-02-25 11:48:17 · 25 answers · asked by lilmama_horses_lover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please don't say i am a willywank like some people or other bad things! and he knows i didn't mean it when i said i just wanted to be friends
2007-02-25 11:51:47 · update #1
he hates you cos you look like a willywank
2007-02-25 11:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by infernalaffairstrilogy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's definitely love, and he definitely likes you. If you can honestly say to yourself that you love him, then you love him. Although he likes you, maybe he isn't very experienced so he doesn't know what to do. Ask him out, and see what he says. If he says no, then the only possible reason why he said no is because he likes you A LOT but his parents won't let him go out yet. Funny, because I'm in the exact same situation as you.
2007-02-25 11:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, i wouldnt call it love just yet because you don't know what he would be like in a relationship, u may think u know him because u have been friends but people change when it comes to relationships. okay to the point, u should just tell him how u feel, tell him u like him and that u want to be with him, get answers from him as to why he is ignoring u although it does seem to me that he really likes u. ask him out, if it doesnt work out, move on with your life, i know u don't wanna lose him and i know its hard..trust me i know, but there are plenty of fish in the sea. good luck girl xx
2007-02-25 11:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by sxybiitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go with the friend bit and see where it ends. Maybe he does not like to be overcrowded, or feel like he is pressured into anything. Maybe he does not know how he feels and you may be overwhelming him. Just take him as a friend and go from there. And one other thing you should remember is sometimes the chase is better than the catch
2007-02-25 12:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by stormydays 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you do love him and this guy loves you too he just doesn't know how to show you correctly so he is acting shy. Go up to him and talk to him and tell him how you feel then ask him how he feels. You might just feel better and you might get a boyfriend too.
2007-02-25 11:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by baby face. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love? Tough call... more likely, it's a crush.
I think it may be ultimatum time. Either he's into dating or he's not. If so, grand. If not, well.. life sucks, but at least now you know and can find another fabulous boy. There really are tons of them out there!! ;)
Good luck!!
2007-02-25 12:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by Chloe M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you say you like someone you can't take it back as a yo-yo. It's like playing games with his feelings. Either you tell him you like it and leave it alone...don't try to say what you think he wants to hear. It's natural to feel nervous when you're around that special someone in the beginning. As you get to know each other as a couple the nervousness will leave.
2007-02-25 11:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its more than strong feelings than love, hell i can be wrong, you just might be in love with this guy. If you really like him, don't tell him you like him as a friend, call him up right now and take action. ask him out and see what he says.
2007-02-25 11:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its lust n he does like you. I think he did what he did coz he is shy. Just tell him straight that you do like him and want to get to know him more. Suggest going out for a drink or something.
2007-02-25 12:06:55 · answer #9 · answered by x_kimmy87_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your playing games with him. If you truly like this guy more than a friend, be straight with him and tell him. Poor guy sounds confused with a hurt ego. Don't you want to be taken seriously? Good luck.
2007-02-25 11:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by Tess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it aint my place to judge if its love, or is it just a crush, or wtever.
but from wt i have heard so far. MAN, u are dumb if u dun grab him by the arm and tell him how u feel FACE TO FACE!!
chances, opportunities, people, they dont just sit there and wait for you to get them!
if you are still reading this, and you have not tell him how u feel yet...get outta here already!! for the love of god! GOOOOOOO!!
good luck...if u are still here..xD
2007-02-25 14:14:28 · answer #11 · answered by heartless_916 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋