I need some help
My guy friend says he likes me but yet likes my sister and I dont want to be all make a choice but how do I tell him without herting his feeling and making him feel rushed that he should make a choice?
2007-02-25 11:44:07 · 8 answers · asked by Aly Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why does he have to make a choice? Ultimatums suck... and they never work in the long run. I'm guessing by your question that you want him as an exclusive relationship. Why?... if he doesn't want that enough to make up his own mind? Let him show you the kind of person he his by the choices he makes, and then decide how far you go with him based on that.
2007-02-25 11:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by helpful_dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hang out with him until he decides. You can tease him by saying You can't decide!, but then smile and walk away saying Call me when you've decided!
It's a gutsy move, but it gets the message across without being mean. Just keep saying that when he tries to talk to you.
2007-02-25 19:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your sis first and make sure there are no hard feelings. If one of you likes him more than the other, than the other should back off and respect her.
Other than that, he is probably just waiting to see which sister will go for him. Whoever shows him that they like him, will probably get him.
2007-02-25 19:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well both you and your sister test him , bring him home to his or your house strio naked ask him which one he wants , if he cant decide then let him sample the **** and see which is sweeter still doesnt deicide see which one of you gives better blow*** if he still doesnt decide see which one of you can make him pop his cork first the winner takes him
2007-02-25 19:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by Rick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT is a tricky one. Just tell him how you feel. He has to make a decision at some stage
2007-02-25 19:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by Jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is actually the kind of thing that should be rushed.. or at least decided quickly. Cuz you wondering who he likes more is gonna drive you crazy.
2007-02-25 19:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry honey you have to tell him to make a choice no matter how much you want to. trust me it will be worth it!
2007-02-25 19:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by greendayluvu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with jack on this one. but don't wait too long for him to make a decision.
2007-02-25 19:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by Spik-e drummer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋