well the thing i go with this boy we've known each other since 7th grade and we just started dating our freshmen year he wants to have sex and i do toobut i know he did it with this other girl who really gets around and i dont kno if i should or not what would you do in my situation
2007-02-25 11:30:54 · 48 answers · asked by ms_quisha1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't have sex with him just to make him happy, have sex when the time is right. don't let him or anyone else pressure you into having sex.
2007-02-25 11:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by S 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If i was in your situation i wouldn't have sex with him only because if he has slept with girls that has been around the block a few times i kinda would afraid to catch something thats not very clean but at the same time having sex is a huge choice and you should personally think about do you need sex in your relationship or If i do have sex will he return back to those nasty girl i don't know this guy like you do so think about all this and you sound very young and sex before marriage is bad and plus at this age you should more serious in your book than a boyfriend thats want to have sex everyone
2007-02-25 11:40:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you plan on marrying this guy? If not then no! I mean you don't want to have all these guys under your belt. It can cause diseases. Plus if he was with a girl that got around who knows what he could have himself. Don't be an easy sleaze bag like the last girl he was with.You will regret sleeping with him in time if you two don't stay together. Make him wait till you are both certain about your future together and if not then get him checked for STDs before you even think of touching his baggage. Good luck!
2007-02-25 11:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should never do anything ,, you are questionable about and esp sex. whats the rush? you have many yrs to decide if he is the one. also i would suggest to go a meeting at plan parent hood you can get alot of advice and help with making a life changing choice. sweetie think about what you are considering doing before you do this and give it time 7th grade till now he can wait if he loves you. and you do owe him anything. think about the risks and all the repercussion that could come from when and if you do this. and i wish the very best for you both of you
2007-02-25 11:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by mala 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl!! I'm 15 and let me ell you DONT DO IT!!! for one he might have a aids or something else if he's been w/a whorey girl, two you could get pregnant I have a 15 year old friend pregnant now and she’s due in March! And there’s been A LOT of girls in my high school who get pregnant! And for three he might have sex w/you then just leave you and you will be hurt and you will totally regret it! But I really hope what I said helps you out and I really hope you think about what I said... Bye and Good Luck!
2007-02-25 11:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOT. For one thing you should be older and on birth control, the best reason for not having sex is you will be known at school like the other girl he had sex with. If he can't wait then he is not that interested in you for who you are, he just wants to get in your pants. Have fun being in your freshman year at school and not spend the rest of school years being known for an easy lay.
2007-02-25 11:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I was in your situation I liked a guy since 7th grade and we stared dating freshman year in high school and after 4 months of dating we ended up having sex and trust me it was the biggest mistake of my life...I am not going to try and stop you but having sex is a very big thing and you probally will eventually end up regreting it
2007-02-25 11:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Absolutley not...you've got the entire rest of your life to have sex. Just the fact that you came on here and asked about it tells everyone that you're not mature enough yet ta have sex. You're not ready so all that is going to happen is something bad...STD...pregnant...bad rep...why would you want any of that for a boy you'll barely remember in 20 years??
2007-02-25 11:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by ExperienceD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a lot of time
If he loves you he will wait
If he can't
time for you to walk away you are a human being not a piece of meat
If he sticks around should have a HIV test before and also you should get the HPV shot
take care and you have a lot of time just be nice to yourself
2007-02-25 11:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person is ready to have sex when they are ready to deal with the consequences of sex. There is no form of contraception that is 100% effective.
So, let alone the risks of all the other possible sexually transmitted diseases out there, you need to think about whether you would be able to deal with it if you got pregnant.
Also, ask him whether he would be able to deal with it, and ask him whether he would agree to go for blood tests to rule out these diseases. If you're not happy with his answers, don't do it.
You have only one life, and there are many ways to be happy in it.
2007-02-25 11:41:16 · answer #10 · answered by Testaco 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well theres 3 options if u would happen to have sex with him you could get pregnant, since u said she gets around theres a good possibility that she has a disease and he may have it which means you could get it if he really respects you then he will wait until ur ready live ur life first theres plenty of time for sex my answer to your question is no and forget about him there are plenty of guys out there but dont do it ...
2007-02-25 11:37:58 · answer #11 · answered by Army_Wife2010 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋