I met this girl on-line last year. We both live miles apart. We started talking for like a month before we actually met. I went to go see her and things went smooth. Her last bf left her for someone else. We continued to talk for about 2 months then one day she tells me that I shouldn't be talking to her because she just got a boyfriend and that she will delete my number and won't call me anymore. I'll admit I was crushed. So we stopped talking. A month later she calls me back saying that she misses me and wants to see me. So I make time to go see her, but then she forgets that I was going to see her and she had already made plans. So I left never to speak to her again. She calls me 2 weeks later. I don't pick up. Then nearly 3 months later she calls me up. I don't pick up cause I reconized the number. Then I get a call in the middle of the night thinking that it was an emergency or something only to find that it was her that called me. She tells me that she wants to be friends. BS?
2007-02-25 11:30:22 · 17 answers · asked by being_played 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Played zone , im sorry you had to go though all that bs with her she is only confused and doesnt know who or what she wants , good thing u stopped talkin to her cause in the long run she would have hurt you . I wish u the best of luck.
2007-02-25 11:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by sparkle_2207 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok... i can relate to this girl. And it is so easy to assume that she is playing you. But before you do i just want you to know that, i was her. I made some bad judgements about a guy. And i made the decision that i wasn't going to talk to him, or have any contact with him EVER again. And then two or three months later, i started missing him and feeling regretful about the choices i had made. She might just be missing the memories that the two of you shared together and trying to get some of that familiarness back in her life. Don't be so quick to judge her, it might be a huge mistake. Goodluck! and i hope things work out for the better.
p.s. trust your instinct.
2007-02-25 19:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by Britt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she isnt into you so just dont have that in your head. If she wants to be friends be sure to keep her in that category and that one alone, dont let her change her mind every now and then. Maybe this girl is just one confused chick who doesnt know what she wants, or craves attention, and since you give it to her she comes crawling back when there isnt anyone else. Sorry,but I think you need to cut her off from anything but friendship. If you cant handle that cuz she has a soft spot in your heart then cut her off completely.
2007-02-25 19:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by R.S. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think? This situation reminds me of a song by Rascal Flatts called "Pieces." She's obviously using you as a comeback-to person after her latest boyfriend/fling-flop. Tell her you've been absolutely crushed by her, and your heart can't take this anymore unless she PROVES that she really wants you.
2007-02-25 19:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend zone, possible bf zone...y'all hit it off but the long distance is/was in the way; she realizes now that the distance isn't worth losing a friend over...
2007-02-25 19:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by avechm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already have the answer leave that girl shes confused and playing with your emotions. If you allow her craziness to proceed it will capture you too..leave it dude she played you so tell her it aint worth it grow up and then maybe you can speak in emails years from now your over the drama.
2007-02-25 19:36:13 · answer #6 · answered by Diva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just wants you as a friend....I don't know the whole online dating thing to me is kinda weird so I would say try to get away from her because all she will do is keep hurting you. Because it sounds like to me that you want more from her than what she wants from you.
2007-02-25 19:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by linsey_runnels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, BS. The poor woman is playing you like cheap violin.
2007-02-25 19:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by Allan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok it sounds like she is desparate and feels like she needs a guy every minute.... like she is using you..... just ignore her and move on..... tell her you feel like you are being used and dont want to talk to her anymore.... just do it in a nice way..... by the way im sayin she is desparate to go out with you b/c i dont know you... im just sayin that she always needs a guy and knows that she can come back to you.... dont let her use yu it is not right and you didnt do anything to deserve it
2007-02-25 19:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by Ginnay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Played zone. And psycho zone.
Tell her not to call you again. Can you block her number, too?
2007-02-25 19:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋