a year ago i ran into this guy and we clicked,we ended up sharing a bed that night nothing had happened except him holding me till i slept,i was still bitter about catching my x cheating(they r mutual friends)he had told me he was nervous about breaking the guy code,but he still stayed.the next morning things were awkward when he left.i saw him a couple months after and he told me i was killing him,my x was also there and freaking out that we liked eachother.9 months later I finally got the courage to call him and i told him straight forward that he was eating me alive,he said it was mutual and he thinks im beautiful but that he has been seing someone for a month and its only fair that he tells me and he continued to tel me how beautiful i am,so i told him to tell me to let it go and give up,he said no,i told him he had to,he said he cant and again told me how beautiful i am.It has been over a week and i have not heard from him.What could he be thinking?
2007-02-25 11:30:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are backup, plain and simple. On the bench. Seond string. If his current thing doesn't work out, he's got you on warm-up to circle back around to. Plus step back for a second from the endorphine induced euphoria... 1) You're "killing him" but not enough to give him the balls to actually communicate like a normal human being after you guys spent the night, 2) He's supposedly with someone (who I'm sure is with him 'cause he's telling her some of the same things he's telling u) but he's still playing his "obsession" out with you and 3) After not being able to communicate like a normal person the first time u were together, telling u he's obsessed with u while he's with someone else and then agin, not being able to communicate like a normal person after that......
Is this really the kind of limp-d**k drama you want in a partner? Or are you under the delusion that it would be completely different if he were with you? If he (and you) are under the age of 30, I guess this is understandable and u can decide whether this is something that sounds like fun, but should still go in with open eyes. Otherwise I suggest you mov one and expect a higher level of maturity from the people you wanna get involved with....
2007-02-25 11:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by helpful_dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have some feelings for you, but if the only thing he can say is that you are beautiful, that's probably the only thing he is thinking, and the only reason he has feelings for you. He may have an outside love, a passionate love for another woman, but this love is also one that doesn't last. You should just move on, although it may be hard, because he is seeing another woman, which implies that he picked her over you.
2007-02-25 19:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by julia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well let's see, he persistently told you that you were beautiful and he told you that he had a gf and you didn't say that's OK we can still do it cause I am so beautiful to you he knows that he is not going to get any from you so he has given up on you.
2007-02-25 19:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he took your advice and let you go. That should be exactly what you wanted since that is exactly what you told him to do. I am confused therefore why you are worried about what he is thinking. He did what you told him to do. Now forget about him and move on. Isn't that what you want anyway?
2007-02-25 19:41:15 · answer #4 · answered by yagman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? do you even have to ask ? PLEASE !!
If a guy is interested , he lets you know . Men aren't hard to understand , if he isn't giving you a clear answer , that means that he wants you on the back burner , in case his other thing falls through .
2007-02-25 19:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to be crude, but it soulnds like he wants a piece.
2007-02-25 19:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by eyedoc999 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋