Met a girl at college. She just moved from another part of the state and transferred to my school. We have been going out and hooking up at the end of the night every time we go out. I leave to go to work in the morning and we send some messages to each other throughout the day, but really don't express how much we like each other until the next time we go out. She claims shes done with her ex, but i hear that she talks to him still and she even goes some weekends and stays with him, and when she gets back she'll call me like nothing happened... She gets jealous if I talk to other girls around her, so I know she likes me right? or maybe she just needs attention.. I like her, for some reason, and she knows this but she never expresses anything towards me unless shes drunk.... Should i quit wasting my time???
2007-02-25 11:28:35 · 12 answers · asked by guitars482 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-25 11:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your just this chicks handbag for now and if your willing to deal with all the baggage that comes with her what a fool you are. Once she starts to know and meet other people where she just moved to she will dump you as her handbag. Let her look after herself than using your emotions she's got it far too good having you as her handbag and your too blind to see this. The jealousy towards others isn't because she likes you, it is her fear she will be alone if you meet a decent girl. If you remain as her handbag long enough you will discover this. Especially when she builds up a new circle of friends (new handbags) then your history.
2007-02-25 11:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by Riley 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that this is "wasting" your time, you most likely don't like her inside. If she only expresses something when her brain is in an alcoholic state of mind, she most likely doesn't have the best feelings for you. Talk to her about it, and ask her what she feels about you. She may just have passionate but temporary feelings for you that won't last.
2007-02-25 11:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by julia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently she is not ready for a committed relationship with you and if you are, don't wast your time unless you are willing to wait to see if she dump her ex .in the mean time keep your heart in your pocket.
2007-02-25 11:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wasting your time. If she was in love with you she would bewith you not going weekend away with the ex. Don't do this to yourself youare better than that.
2007-02-25 11:34:46 · answer #5 · answered by wendybartram2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me that she isn't over he ex yet. I mean goodness she needs to tie up her loose ends before she starts something new with a new guy.
2007-02-25 11:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by linsey_runnels 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if ur really feelin this girl then go for her, but dont waste 2 much time on her, if she keeps playin games find a new chick
2007-02-25 11:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by Vic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're wasting your time on her. Find someone else who is worth your time.
2007-02-27 16:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by RunSueRun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough one if you like her that much put up with the bs if you just want the sex you got it like she does what do you really want
2007-02-25 11:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by jeepin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, maybe she's not yet ready and she's just observing how'd you feel to her...
2007-02-25 11:38:31 · answer #10 · answered by seeker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋