How can i make my life easier?

Question

I am big and i dread going to school incase i am bullied. I also dread p.e as a lot of people in other classes are able to look out the window and can see the p.e courts. I get really worried to even go out some times. but if i talk to my mum she thinks im exadurating. I can barely even walk down the street on my own let alone doing anything else. Im just really unhappy at the moment with a lot of things and it is making me feel really ill all the time. But i dont know who to talk to. what can i do?

Answer 1

I got bullied really bad when I was a kid, for other reasons I have never figured out (I didn't gain weight until I was out of high school). You ought to look into assertiveness training, you will have to google that and maybe get some books at the library. Also there is some stuff on the internet now about bullying, so you ought to be able to get advice on confronting them.

Remember that a lot of bullies grow up to be criminals one day, so don't let them make you feel bad as best you can-THEY are the losers, if they don't fix what makes them behave that way.

Also, it would behoove you to sign up for weight watchers or TOPS (take off pounds sensibly) or go to Curves and work out-it is so hard to take weight off, and it only gets harder the older you are. You have to figure out a way to hold the line and not get bigger, which is hard.

I can say that it doesn't matter what you look like it's what's inside that counts, and I really believe that. but there will be people who are jerks, and you have to either figure out a way to deal with the jerks or take off some pounds or preferably, both. Good luck, and remind yourself daily of all the GOOD things about yourself.

Answer 2

Well you need to set goals and achieve them be the person you are inside and work on being comfortable with the person you are on the outside...if people dont like you for who you are you dont need them anyways.... you can always try dieting and exercise and if you want it bad enuf you can be the person you know you are and others will see it too...you are afraid of showing people yourself on the inside...becaus eyou think they cant get past the outside...well some are cruel and some will understand...its a hard world out there and good luck

Answer 3

first off; don't listen to lame people like "tough guy".
It sounds like you have somethings that you want to work on. Trying going for walks or working out on your own, this will help you do better in PE and it will make you feel better to.
Remember when people do bully you it is because they don't like themseleves and don't know how to help themselves.
Don't worry about how others see you. Do what you need to do to be happy and healthy.
Good luck and make good choices

Answer 4

ok so all you have to do is not do p.e or get an excuse i know your un happy with alot of things so am i but face your problems and fix them if you need more help e mail me at [e-mail]

Answer 5

wow. well it is always easier said than done. i suggest exercise, time management and relax on a reg. basis. explore Machiavellianism. the basic concept of this is to become confident, competent and eloquent. its not some religious thing or n e thing. its all theory (psych.). peace and love

Answer 6

Forget tough guy hes a A**

Talk to someone you trust at school, like you teacher or write a note to your mom. You have to talk to someone. dont walk alone!!

Answer 7

home school, all people are bad people even good people only do it for their ego, most have some evil intention, just stay away from humankind. get expelled if need be. and learn karate so you can kick their ***.

Answer 8

dont do that ok