So there is this guy that i have been chillin wit for about 3 weeks now.. We hang out almost everyday. He knows that I am into him and i think he is into me too..But i dont exactly know. He is really hard to read. and normaly im good at that. I just dont know what to do ne more. bc I want a relationship wit him but when i brought it up to him all he said was "well whatever happens happens" and I dont really know how to take it? ne advice?
2007-02-25 11:21:20 · 13 answers · asked by naeee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i had this problem and the only thing any body ever told me was if it is meant to be then love will find a way. it took about two months to get him to b my boyfriend and we have been going out for almost two years now. u just have to be patient and see where life takes you. good luck
2007-02-25 11:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by Hales 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way, you are young and so is he. His statement of what happens happens is like saying, "**** Happens." Take it at face value. Have some fun, stay away from serious matters of the heart, enjoy the moment, and if your sexually active PLEASE use protection. Allowing him to go swimming with out his boots in order to try and trap him is a common mistake young ladies of all ages make. They end up with child and 99% of the time with out the man.
Do not make the mistake of thinking that anything you can do will ever change this person. Only maturity can do that and he is lacking in that area.
Hope you wanted honesty.
2007-02-25 11:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by Nana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's scared. He doesn't want to make the first move, and he seems too have been hurt before, a little frightened of what might happen. You can't want a relationship right away. Grow as friends untill the time is right, and when it is, BOTH of you will want it.
2007-02-25 11:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by AnneMarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may like you, he may not. If he does, I think he's hoping for some physical action without the ties of a relationship. Do you want that?
2007-02-25 11:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident. approach him and tell him how you feel. If he feels the same way, then you have gained a boyfriend. If he says he doesn't know, than all that is lost to you is your time. Move on if he isn't man enough to know how he feels.
2007-02-25 11:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by sid_donut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say if you like him just hang out with him just don't get to attached. but i think he likes you or else he would not hang out with you all the time. good luck.
2007-02-25 11:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by r19c18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK WELL JUST BRING IT UP AGAIN AND SEE WHAT HE SAYS. AND IF HE SAYS HE DOESNT WANT A RELATIONSHIP JUST GET OVER HIM AND MOVE ON THERE IS OTHER FISHY'S IN THE SEA CHICKY! BYE
2007-02-25 11:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by tiggergrl1236 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that to me means he wants you to be the one to ask him out and if you like him like you do you should go for it
2007-02-25 11:25:47 · answer #8 · answered by ms_quisha1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could not read past "chillin wit"........
2007-02-25 11:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by Emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring it up if he really wants to bo together he will tell you
2007-02-25 11:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by jeepin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋