It all started when I was going to toast a bagel because I was hungry. And I burnt the bagel by mistake! I went in my kitchen an saw that the bagel was burning, so I quickly took the bagel out, but then my uncle started yelling and saying "what did you get on fire girl" And then I said "I was toasting a bagel and it burnt,and I am really sorry!"
And know my uncle keeps saying, "you ruin everything" and "you never do anything right!" And i keep saying i'm sorry! And he is making me clean the whole kitchen, and walk his dog, etc.
What should i do? I am really sorry!
P.S. I am only nine years old!
2007-02-25 11:12:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Am I the only one confused here? I just read in your profile you are 17, now here you say you are 9. Why should we believe you have an Uncle that is a jerk if we can't believe even how old you are?
2007-02-25 13:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like a really mean uncle. Just try to keep out of his way. Clean up after yourself in the kitchen and tell him you don't mind helping but you are not going to clean up all the time for him or everyone else. Don't be rude to him, but be firm. If he yells at you say softly that you don't appreciate his shouting at you and walk away, tell him to talk to you when he can talk to you calmly.
2007-02-25 19:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear... this doesn't mean he is crazy it just means that he doesn't respect you and is looking for reasons to get you to do something..just go along with...when he says things like he said..just ignore those comments, they're not true! You have nothing to be sorry about. (And you are only nine and you have really great spelling and punctuation)
Hope it helps sweetie
PS: if you are serious about the crazy part then I think he might have skitzofrenia
here are some websites: www.LivingWithSchizophrenia.com
www.psychiatry24x7.com
2007-02-25 20:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by Rock N Roll HootchieCoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Uncle obviously has some issues. Please speak to your parents about this. You should not be left in the care of this type of emotional turmoil. Your Uncle giving you chores is not a bad thing, your Uncle tearing you down emotionally is quit a different story.
2007-02-25 19:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by Nana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him either that your doing homework or reading a book or you dont have time. you could also tell your parents about this or simply say no i walked you dog too many time, if you want me to walk him/her, you have to pay me.
2007-02-25 19:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by natjan95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋