I have just split with my husband ,an have not been near another man ,Mentally or physicly in anyway,but have picked up were I left off with this guy I met years ago and he hit's every button
What I'm askin is, should I just go for it or wait a bit.
New to the dating scean,but for obviouse resons he's as keen as I am totally convused and sexualy fustrated.
2007-02-25 11:06:22 · 20 answers · asked by live life 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would make him wait just a bit - even if you are bursting yourself. good luck
2007-02-25 13:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you wait a bit. Since you've just split with your husband, your in a vulnerable position at the present time. Most men pick up on this immediately and some believe it's the most opportune time to take advantage of women. You can know this by explaining you need a little time before jumping in the sack and if he's understanding and willing to wait a bit with you, then it's a safe bet he's NOT taking advantage of you. Granted, sex is GREAT but it will only temporarily satisfy you. Afterwards, you may feel used and this will only make your current situation more painful. What's the rush anyway? You have the rest of your life.
2007-02-25 19:42:38 · answer #2 · answered by Tess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
There's an easy answer to this one, and that is just go for it, and cast all fate to the winds, wherever it blows from, but just a minute! hang on there, you say this new man has hit every button, and you still have not had him where you think you want him to be, well it sounds to me like you are going to do it with him anyway, and see if that old tingle is still there for you both, well let me tell you this honey, it may not be for the first few times you are doing it together, but after a little time and practice, you are both going to be hitting not just buttons, but belts, zippers
and whatever else is keeping both your hands off each other. but please remember this too, there is a great deal more to loving a man than just having a great time in a bedroom, there are many rooms in a house of love, so thake your time and make sure all is well, and if it is, then take this man to your body and soul, and don't lose out again this time, and love him like no man was ever loved, he just might do the same for you.. good luck, and be careful honey..... xXx.....Tony M
2007-02-25 19:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by tony m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's frustrating for you (sexually) then think how confusing & frustrating (mentaly) For your kids it would be if you did!!!!!
For the sake of them and your respect as well as your neigbour's & family oppinion's (how ever misconstrued) what would they be thinking?
Sounds to me as if you just need a holiday or gettaway from whatever you have been through!
Regards to the chap that know's how to hit every button!
How many (girl's buttons) has he hit on in the past?
Would serve you right to get him checked out at the doc's as well as not to let him get what he has been wanting for years!
One of the ten commandments are = Thou shall not covert an other man's wife!
If he is like this then he is not worthy of looking after your family!
You have just left a bad situation, for all concerned don't put your self in another!!!!
2007-02-25 20:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by Chris W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually good to wait a year to get over the split (grieving/healing process etc) but if you can't resist the new guy I would take things very slowly. You could be on the rebound.
2007-02-25 19:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by farleyjackmaster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if its just for no strings attached sex....or possibly looking for long term love, more than likely for him it will be for just the sex, for the latter, wait a while...give yourself time to get over the split with your hubby, if i was you i'd enjoy the single life first and see how you go from there
goodluck
2007-02-26 08:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was to say "Yes, sleep with him" Would that make you go and do it?
I'm sorry, but it's not for anyone on here to tell you to make this leap or not, you have to do what you want to. Say 99% of people said "Yes, you only live one, go for it" and you did it, and then hated yourself???
You do what is right for you.
2007-02-25 19:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should't sleep with him because you just split and you don't know if you could fix things with your husband plus you need a time alone. I can't understand people who can't be alone. You need a time ALONE to grow up
2007-02-25 19:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by C6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait a while ::::::::::::::::::::::::
Visit Ann Summers and treat your self babe have Little time to appreciate yourself before you go any were with him he will wait if he likes you.
But there again if you really want to go for have a good time and remember be carefull !!!!
2007-02-25 19:13:45 · answer #9 · answered by tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you had to ask then the answers no. you will know when the time is right. if you do it before youre ready you could ruin your friendship....buuuuut when thetime is right you will know and it will all fall into place. good luck. and more importantly... have fun
2007-02-25 20:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by hardheartedharlot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋