I finally called this guy i have been crushin on for a year now.I told him he was eating me alive,he said it was mutual and he thinks im so beautiful and he had no idea thats how i felt.He said he started dating someone a month ago and its only fair that he tells me, but he continued to tell me how beautiful i am,so i told him he had to tell me to let it go and give up,he said no,i told him he had to,he said he cant and continued to tell me how beautiful i am again.So thats where the conversation ended and i told him i had to get off the phone and its been a week and no sign from him.From what i wrote here does he seem to want to be with me or does he seem to be saying nice things to me to let me down easy?I cannot do anything more here and he is all im thinking about.
2007-02-25 11:04:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah you got the message. Let it go.
2007-02-25 11:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it will go any where. I had a very similiar situation. I had this crush on this girl for like 3 years when ever I was single she was dating someone and when she was single I was dating someone eventually we went out on a date and nothing happened we just didn't click even though we each thought each thought about each other often. If you've waited a year you can wait a little longer until he's not dating any one and go out on a date with him see how things go.
2007-02-25 19:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop drop and roll away from him! He has player written all on him. He took the honesty approach! Players do that in order to gain your trust. He feels like he will get respect because he told you about that other girl. WRONG! He also feels that he has you because you came to him with your feelings. No good dude would try and talk to you while with someone else. Do yourself a favor and save your own heart the pain!
2007-02-25 19:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry sweetheart but this guy is playing mind games with you keeping you in the background just in case things go wrong no girl should play second fiddle he sounds like an asshole to me but if you feel you can wait around for him for like mayb a month mayb a year of maybe 10 go ahead you should get on with your own life everyone else is and he sure is.Never look for love you only attract the wrong sort, love will find you when you are willing to receive it..enjoy life and don't wait around for any man!!!!
2007-02-25 19:23:26 · answer #4 · answered by Bud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him-if he's telling the truth about him having a girl friend then he's just a 2 timer if he was hitting on you how many others is he hitting on?if he calls you back just tell him off.what ever you do dont let him get to you about you being beautiful-i mean you probably are but he's just trying to hook up with you.
2007-02-25 19:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by alaina l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you need to get out of the house. Call a friend, someone, and have a long talk with them.
He is probably taking advantage of you. You don't need a man like this, honest!
2007-02-25 19:08:59 · answer #6 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was hinting around to see if you would be open to being "the other woman". I'm sure that's not where you'd like to have things end up.
2007-02-25 19:08:53 · answer #7 · answered by Maybalee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he might have a thing for you. He might be avoiding you because he does not want his girlfriend to know about the conversation ya'll had on the phone.
2007-02-25 19:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by gutt12@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you, but he's dating someone else exclusively now. Perhaps when he's single, he will be able to date you again.
It's just a case of bad timing. Sorry. :(
2007-02-25 19:10:24 · answer #9 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesn't want you to be embarrassed. come to think of it, you were courageous enough to tell him your feelings. and he told you he's dating someone, well, he was just giving you a hint to somehow stop your feelings for him first.
reality bites. and i know its hard. but congrats! you're one brave soul!
2007-02-25 19:10:28 · answer #10 · answered by m_a_dancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋