we have a perfect relationship. Am i being selfish
2007-02-25 11:02:53 · 9 answers · asked by msbrandnew02 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am not insecure at all, I just don't like the fact that he does it, but he is entitled to have female friends but I just don't care for her. He talks to other females and I dont have a problem with that because I am not trying to control who he talks with, but this '*****', I just dont care for.
2007-02-28 04:03:06 · update #1
If your relationship was perfect, then you wouldn't have this complaint. You are both being selfish if you are not married. I don't say this for any misrepresented "moral" reason, but from a legal perspective. You need to protect that child to ensure is legal rights and welfare are intact.
Do he and his ex have children together???? He surely was like this BEFORE you decided to have sex with him which could result in a baby AND it did. If you saw this behaviour in him before, then why did you stick with him? I guess we see what we want to..... sad.
2007-03-05 03:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by choose happiness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The information you gave with your question is not really enough to make a logical decision. Does the father of your infant have children with his ex? Is there a particular reason for talking with his ex? Who is initiating the call and how long does the call usually last? Does he have a problem with you overhearing his side of the call? Are they making dates behind your back?
2007-03-05 19:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
goodness ! let him be ......the man is free to talk to whom he wants ,whether it is an ex or a female friend .that is a sure way to loose him ....!
yes you are being selfish .......your relationship is not that perfect , you are trying to control his actions ?! please give it some room .......he is just on the phone with her ?
and now if you dump him ? and he finds another ? how would you feel if you wished to hear from him ? but unfortunately his new girl does NOT allow him to ever talk to you again ?
how about it ?
please be cool .........loosen up :-)
real love does not impose nor restrict :-)
2007-03-04 12:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by HJW 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is wrong because he is only talking to her they could be friends and if u are so insecure then why are you with him then. you cant have a perfect relationship it u are thinking about dumping him because he is talking to his ex it would be different it it was more than that.
2007-02-25 19:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by rk 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You say that you have the perfect relationship with him but I don't think it is all that you make it out to be if he is continuing to talk to his ex's on the phone. Maybe you should talk to your ex's on the phone and see how he reacts.
2007-02-25 19:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not say "dump him", damn that is strong. But I will tell him, look you can anyone you like, why Her???? Is there any feelings between you too/??? if he says "No" then ask him to cut it off, if he says "yes", then you have your answer....
Always think before you speak, do not ask a question if you don't want to hear the answer.
Best of luck to you.
2007-03-05 12:25:09 · answer #6 · answered by Ariana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him? You're not together, otherwise you'd refer to him as your husband. So he can talk to all the ex's he wants.
2007-02-25 19:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
you should dump him if you let him know how you feel and he isn't understand and willing to compromise with you about it
2007-03-03 18:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by lata 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON'T THINK OF YOURSELF DOING THE WRONG THING IF YOU LEAVE HIM BECAUSE I DON'T THINK HE SHOULD TALK TO HIS EX-GIRLFRIEND UNLESS THEY HAD A BABY TOGETHER, OTHER THAN THAT THERE SHOULDN'T BE NO CONTACT WHAT SO EVER.HE'S DISRESPECTING YOU.
2007-03-04 11:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by frances c 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋