I had been seeing this guy every week and talking daily on the phone. Things were going well and he even gave me a nice birthday present. All of a sudden he stops replying to my texts. A week goes past of hearing nothing. I text him asking if i could come and pick up dvds he had of mine, he replied this time saying yes. When i met him he said he was really sorry for not repling before and he was just being silly and immature. A few days into giving him another chabce (because i still like him ) he is doing the same thing and ignoring me.....why!!!!!????
2007-02-25 10:47:24 · 34 answers · asked by roxysmilegirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He met someone else.
2007-02-25 10:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't htink this guy likes you very much, or else he would be always answering you and WANTING to talk to you nonstop (not overly obsessive though, but you get it).
My boyfriend and I had the same troubles in the beginning. Now that we've been together for 9 months (WOW!!!!) i asked him, and his answers were:
1) he was nervous, it was his first time being a boyfriend, he wasnt' sure what to do, or what to say, and he was scared to call me cuz he thought my parents hated him.
2) He's a busy guy, he doesn't have a cell phone, his computer is old and messed up, and the same deal is with his phone, or, he has a lot of schoolwork and CAN'T spend time talking nonstop to his girlfriend.
I've asked around some of my guy-friends and they say:
1) boys in public school learn how to be mean to girls and treat them like object, not like the beatufil woman they truly are, even though they SEEM nice.
2) sometimes there are too many girls for one guy to choose, there are so many to pick from, he may have been talking to another girl and felt really bad talking to you cuz he was cheating. it's not likely, but probable.
3) Sometimes guys need a little thrill. If he lives in a boring lifestyle, strict parents and whatnot, he'll do stupid things for fun, attetion, and thrill. One of these things is ignoring his girlfriend so he can be all sad and sorry so he can get a little boost in his boring life.
I don't know THIS guy, but I do know lots of OTHER guys who enjoy talking about themselves.
Goobye and Good Luck!
2007-02-25 10:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Cute T ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player whom has found another to play head games with or has been involved with someone serious your unaware of. Guys like this do have issues. Mental issues. I bet he's immature and gets bored easily. I am currently suffering from being played by this exact type of guy and have been for almost eight months. It has been painful and becoming more so since recently learning I've gotten pregnant by him. This same kinda jerk flipped out bad upon learning he'd gotten me pregnant, demanding an abortion, slamming $400 on the table then threatened to speak with his lawyer when I couldn't get an abortion with just $400. I strongly suggest you count your lucky stars you've learned now about what a freak this guy is and run like hell. I know it hurts but I can guarantee you it will hurt beyond anything you've imagined if you continue to give this guy the time of day. I sincerely wish you the best of luck.
2007-02-25 11:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but this guy seems too immature to handle a relationship. if he is trying to play hard to get, he isnt doing a good job. a way to test this out is instead of texting him, u should do what he does. let a week go by and wait to see if he texts u. if he does, then u guys should just work at being friends first and take it slow. if he doesnt text u at all, then he isnt worth your time. if he isnt calling you or responding to u, then he just isnt that into you and u deserve better!
good luck!
2007-02-25 10:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure how old the two of you are. He sounds like he doesnt know how toact around you or he is really into playing games. If you feel like you can keep dealing with his issues then so be it, but dont sell yourself short. There are plenty of good guys around that you can and will find that will treat you with the respect you need and want. Good luck
2007-02-25 10:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just being immature. I am sorry to say this but he prob has met someone Else. My ex behaved the same way and i just did not see the signs. you don't need that drama in your life. I know u like him, but you do not deserve it. as hard as it might be, i say let him go.
2007-02-25 10:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by carriec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to ask if you met him on the internet..no offense...or, if you did not really get to know him before you started dating him..or both... anyway, he really doesn't want to date you dear...
hope you find someone who is stable next time... and who is really looking for someone to settle down with....(who knows, maybe he already has someone else in mind, either way, he trying to avoid you, so you may as well open your eyes and move on)....good luck, I truly mean that
2007-02-25 10:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by amber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he is a pillock an needs to grow up an learn how to treat a lady right , forget about him an move on sweetheart an this time don't look back he will learn from his mistakes hopefully an realise he has lost one beautiful woman . hope everything goes good for you
2007-02-26 21:35:31 · answer #8 · answered by lianbiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it; he may say seem like a nice guy, but he has met someone else. Ask him if he has met someone else, he has to be spending his time somewhere. Tell it him that he is wasting your time and you could be with someone who really wants to be with you....if he doesnt.
ask him does he see himself with you in 2 months? Look him directly in his eyes when you ask him. If he looks away hes not being honest.
stand up
ask him
GOOD LUCK,,,,,,,,, oh you could always do the same to him and see how he likes it.
2007-02-25 11:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by B.Billups 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
According to him, he is being silly and immature.
Decide if that's what you want in a guy right now. If it is - stay with it.
If it's not - tell him that when he is ready to STOP being silly and immature, you'd love to spend time with him.
Bye bye
2007-02-25 10:51:13 · answer #10 · answered by Uncle John 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two pretty obvious reasons spring to mind, one is that he is a putz and the second is that he is playing the field by seeing someone else and just stuffing you about! LOOSE him!
2007-02-25 10:54:37 · answer #11 · answered by mad_mick001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋