he acts like i dont exist. He curses me out and i dont know what to do.
2007-02-25 10:38:07 · 16 answers · asked by chesley_bratz93 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why would u say no to him if u liked him????? and why do u give him a reason to curse u out....your messing up. fix it
2007-02-25 10:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men take rejection hard, he is lashing out on you because you hurt his feelings...this is not your fault, it seems to be a growing process but some guys are more extreme than others. Girls actually do it too but are not as aggressive in doing so. I would pull him aside and talk to him, maybe explain to him that you are simply not ready to date or something like that, I don't know, use your imagination. If you explain that it is not him, (just lie if you have to, I am assuming by his behavior it is him) he may back off and leave you in peace. If that doesn't work, ignore it. He should get bored and stop, but if he seems like he is getting too agressive have a talk with one of your teachers about it...He may have other issues. Don't put yourself in danger
2007-02-25 10:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hurt him, he needs to get over it and in time he will but for know you need to move on and try to put him out in the back of you mind.
Getting turned down by someone you like hurts big time no matter how old you are, and he doesn’t know how to handle it. So just give him room to breath and in time he'll see he was wrong and come back to you and say I'm so very sorry for being a jerk will you ever forgive me?
There's no good way in telling someone you don't want to date them but we all need to remember they do have feelings and someday we're going to one the other side getting turned down and how would we like to be turned down with out getting to hurt.
You did nothing wrong you just spoke you mind. So stay cool and give him a room to vent.
Good luck and keep on smiling
2007-02-25 10:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time he is a jerk go up to him and firmly ask him what the fudge is his problem and if he ever cusses you out again you go up to him an smack him as hard as you can and then you tell him off
2007-02-25 10:43:03 · answer #4 · answered by Vincent Valentine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk. But if you liked him when he asked you out, why did you say no?
2007-02-25 10:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by kb293 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know you,
but i honestly think you should ignore him and im pretty sure u can find a better boyfriend then that..
one that doesnt treat you like dirt if you say no to them, or one that doesnt only want you for something.
hope i helped you:) xx
2007-02-25 10:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by xwillxalwaysxmissxhimx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a taste of his own medicine,do everything he does 2 u back 2 him.he prolly does it cuz he is an asshole and cuz he knows tht u will let him do it.dont let him walk all over u.
2007-02-25 10:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by spongebob917 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because you said no to him. He's angry at you for not wanting to be with him. Just ignore him also, and forget about it until he grows up.
2007-02-25 10:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by Dreizehn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you weren't nice to him by saying "no." He's upset...if you wanted him to act like you exist you should've gone out w/him.
2007-02-25 11:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by jh361 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he should go over it. If you just shot him down, then he may be bitter. Go to him and apologize and say you can still be friends.
2007-02-25 10:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋