All right well I have been friends with this girl since we were six years old. To this day, she has always been my best friend and like a sister to me.
However, it wasn't until last week that I realized that I had fallen in love with her. It's tough to explain how because I honestly don't know how it happened. I just woke up one day and couldn't stop thinking about her. I swear it's as if it happened by magic!
We've always been honest with each other and I felt it was best to tell her how I felt.
The problem with this is that we both live away from our families and friends. She is the only family and the only true friend that I had in Orlando and now I'm basically alone. I have no idea what to do in order to get over her so we can continue our friendship like we have our entire lives. So it seems like I lost my sister and best friend because of how I felt.
Now I'm wondering if I was right to tell her how I felt? What can I do to get over this and move on?
2007-02-25 10:27:28 · 5 answers · asked by joelopr20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her
2007-02-25 10:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get ahold of this friend and let her know that by telling her that you loved her in a sexual way was the utmost compliment that you could have ever thought of. Explain to her that being "best friends" since the age of 6 and seeing her mature into a young woman made you realize that you want a different girl/woman in your life as a girlfriend/wife, but with ALL the qualities that you have seen in her. Obviously, you and her share a true friendship that cant be undone, therefore compliment her on her life and her outlooks and see if you can find a girl/woman that mirrors what she has. Good luck...
2007-02-25 18:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by tdoh2o4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was absolutely okay to tell her how you are feeling. But you can not expect that she is going to feel the same. Are you just lonely? Or do you really think you love this girl? I mean like a life partner? If she is not into you that way then you have no choice but to move on. Definately keep in touch, you do not want to lose a lifelong friendship. You will find love again don't worry.
2007-02-25 18:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truely really wanna get over her then find other hobbies but if not you can't just let love like that go so pop into her life one day
and tell her exactly what you told us and you really gotta make sure it's true love...love is more than not being able to stop thinking about someone and someone will sooner or later come into your life and not be able to stop thinking about you so just be patient and let love run it's coarse
2007-02-25 18:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude youve known her since six???? forget tryin to move on!!!! go after her!!!!!!! this is where a car comes in handy
2007-02-25 18:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by loyal 2 tha bone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋