we where together for 6 yrs,and had a child, but because hes a idiot i left, but what im wanting to know is should i give back all the stuff he bought me when we where together? he bought me nice necklaces and a few nice bits, but now i hear that is the done thing to give him back everything ,but i dont wanna kylie minougue did should i....?
2007-02-25 10:25:40 · 14 answers · asked by Madonna 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No! 6 years? Wow, what a jerk. I truly wish the best for you two! But anyway, I don't think you should give back anything. Normally when people give gifts back it is a sure sign that I am not over that person so I have to go through that process in order to heal. I mean if he asked for it back then I guess you have no option. But after 6 years can you really give back everything? he can't get his sperm back that created your child so no. Just move on if it is really over. But my guess is that if you had to post this question then it isn't over. And if it's not really over in your heart then you need to post a new question! :)
2007-02-25 10:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't give him back the gifts. Give him his things, but those are yours. When he gave you the gifts, it was probably because he cared about you. What is he going to do with your jewelry, anyways? Also, he might be offended if you give his gifts back. You don't want to hurt his feelings or anything, that will just make the breakup harder. You still want to be on good terms, especially because you have a child together. He can still be a friend, and friends give each other gifts, right? good luck.
2007-02-25 10:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by Leselina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me answer this way, if you give a gift to a friend or family at Christmas or any other Holiday or birthday, and three years went by do you expect the gift back, just because has money value. A gift is a gift and to me is not refundable.
2007-02-25 10:39:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that should be returned is an engagement ring if one was given to you. All the other stuff was a gift to you and you should keep them.
2007-02-25 10:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 22:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you want to give them back then you should but if i did not want them i would sell them make money off of them if you wanted to if you keep it you will only think of him everytime you look at it i am going throw that right now myself everytime i look at the stuff he gave me i think about how much i miss him and want him back and i look at his photo and cry myself to sleep at nights. if you do keep it hide it so you dont have to look at it hope this helps.
2007-02-25 10:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by betty m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to give it all back to him its your choice. are you ever going to wear the jewelery or is it just going to sit in your room. having it around will also cause you alot of memories. i dont know what happened or ne thing so this is kind of hard to answer. what ever you feel is the best for you.
2007-02-25 10:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want o go ahead but they are yours now he gave them to you. I mean if you have his belongings that's a total different thing then you can give it back. But, if you want to have memories of him keep em'.
2007-02-25 10:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by Bubblez ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're quality things, sell them...Keeping them may bring back memories you don't want...
2007-02-25 10:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by Vinegar Taster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! keep them if you like them if you dont like them then try to get money off of them.
2007-02-25 10:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋