I like, this freshman girl in my last period study, and I want to get to know her better, but she doesn't really know me... and we don't hjave any other classes together, and we aren't in the same lunch..so i guess my only choice is to invite her outside of school or to a school dance, but there aren't any happening soon...I don't want to be to pushy to go on a date, but I really want to get to know her better...no I am not like "that"...I don't like girls 4 sex,I really like her, and her personality, she is so funny, and sweet, but I don't know what to do....
P.S; I am not a "hot" guy, but I have been told I am cute, by many people...idk I need help!!!
2007-02-25 10:19:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want to sound too pushy by just asking her out, unless it doesn't hurt, b/c I want to get to know her better to see if she is the right girl 4 me..I am not shallow people...lol
2007-02-25 10:26:32 · update #1
Just try talking to her after class. If she likes you, then she will respond. Get to know her first, before you ask her out. Ease into it. Tell her that you like her...If you really like her...What have you got to lose?
2007-02-25 10:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by KS 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So just ask her if she'd like to hang out with you and get to know you.
Say something like: "You know we really don't have enough time to chat in class and I was wondering if you'd like to hang out after school sometime"
You could ask her to meet you at the library or go to some fast food place or just meet at the park and talk.
Instead of waiting for the next dance to come along you should just ask her if she'd like to hang out. What's the worst she could say? No? Well then BEFORE asking/inviting her somewhere prepare yourself for the worst. That way when the worst doesn't come you will realize that you worried for nothing.
Good luck
PS Only shallow girls look at a guy for what's on the surface. Girls that really take the time to get to know the real you should be the only ones that are worthy of your presence.
2007-02-25 18:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you do after your classes are over?
Is there a place you go, a deli or coffee shop perhaps.
Ask her if she would like to come along with you; of course you will have to be where you will meet up with her. But just ask her. Say to her that you've noticed her and you would like to get to know her better, or just hang out ... what ever... But compliment her on some thing that you like about her, maybe some thing she said or did, so that she knows you pay attention to her and are serious about wanting to get to know her.
2007-02-25 18:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by Feather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could you possibly talk to her during your last class together? or just make sure you walk out of class at the same time? that way it really isnt acward. you should give it a shot. ask her if she would like to just go for icecream or go for a walk. thats what i would want a guy to ask me. nothing too serious. just as friends.
2007-02-25 18:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her. The worst she can say is no. And if you don't ask her, then it's a no anyway. You've got to take risks in life, because sometimes, they pay off and you end up enjoying that time in your life that you might have missed out on just because of the fear of rejection.
2007-02-25 18:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by wolfpack girl 08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to her during your study period
and see what shes into
if she likes movies invite her to a movie or something like that hang out with her first as a friend get comfterable around her and then ask her out on a date
2007-02-25 18:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by Shannon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the previously suggested idea of walking her out of last period study... Then maybe you can bring up the subject of what you do after school.... like, 'do you ever go to .... place?I'm going to go there after school one day this week, wanna come?' or something like that....
2007-02-25 18:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by Jebbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what youshould do is write her a note asking her to meet you after school and then you can talk for a bit and get to know each other build up a friendship and then you can act on it.GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-25 18:27:33 · answer #8 · answered by ~sweetness 101~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can afford a date then ask her out if not just try to hang out were she is hangin out, if that dont work then just tell her that you would like to hang out with her if she says no then she is not in to ya
2007-02-25 18:24:10 · answer #9 · answered by babyboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. Your not being pushy. and you'll never know unless you ask. Good luck and congrats!
2007-02-25 18:29:51 · answer #10 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋