Ok, so there's this girl that I met and dated 4 years ago and we stopped dating after a few months and never really talked after that. Up until recently. I saw her and talked to her at a party I had at my house and we ended up sleeping in the same bed but nothing happened. We talk often now and I am beinging to like her again, and I feel like I get the same vibe from her, but when ever we are spending time together and hooking up shes drunk. So does she actually like me, or is it just the alcohol? We talk when she's sober, but never when we're together.
2007-02-25 10:15:57 · 18 answers · asked by Andy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she could just be attracted to you when shes drunk.. or she might like you again from feelings that she had before... her true feelings might be coming out from the alcohol.. or she just looks for comfort when shes drunk.
you'd really have to talk to her when shes sober..and try to hang out when shes sober.. see how she acts.
hope it helps & goodluck :)
2007-02-25 10:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move On!!! Look For Another Girl. This Could Be A Red Flag.
I Will Have To Say There Is A Problem Within Her. Why the alcohol??
And So There Is A Change That Does Happen When She Drinks? I Would Get Her Some Help!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-25 18:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's SORTA dating you, and sorta relying on the idea that if she's drunk when she hooks up with you, it's like she's not really doing it on purpose. She sounds like she's not sure about what she really wants, or maybe she likes you but thinks there's some reason you shouldn't be together. She could have some reason why she isn't comfortable with you - did you guys end badly before?
2007-02-25 18:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by thalesgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having fun when your with her, than just enjoy it for what it is, and let what happens next happen on its own, with out worrying about the "what ifs". Not saying you should play her or anything like that, but have fun and enjoy each others company. The next step will happen all on its own. Life is too short not to have fun every step of the way.
2007-02-25 18:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by SOLO KING 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know i was a drunk just almooost 2 years ago and when i got drinking i could do any thing and that girl u r typing about sounds like how i was, are you sure she's not stringing other men on,like she's doing you,,,if she was serious about you she would be herself instead of being someone she's not,,plus don't waste your time with her unless you can just do her and have a sexbuddie for fun,,,if not ,,,your letting her play u or use you for money to buy her drinks,,,,,dont go ther take it from me ,,,,,your gonna get some messeges almost like mine ,,,,ibet u
2007-02-25 18:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by darkangelflea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get her off the booze, then talk to her and have the "DTR" talk. "Determining The Relationship" it is quite simple and if you just communicate what you are feeling, because girl like guys who communicate so just give that a shot.
This is from your not so local adviser dude
2007-02-25 18:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by tcourtright13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She actually loves you but is not actualy in love with you,because the alchohol plays with peoples minds and agrees on things she didn't think about this so she wouldn't realize that it's wong!
2007-02-25 18:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by The American Bad Ass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her out sometimes when she's sober and ask her if she feels the same way too like you guys used too do !!
2007-02-25 18:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by AC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well keep this in mind DRUNKS speak the truth b/c they are to drunk to kno to lie
2007-02-25 18:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by babyboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont like a drunk!
2007-02-25 18:19:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋