Hey, so I am 20, I haven`t been kissed yet and of course never had a boyfriend, well you know, I just didn`t feel ready for any of those things, now I do. A guy asked me to be his gf and I am probably gonna say yes.Since religion has no importance for me I am not one of those girls who want to wait until they are married, no way,. So I just wanted to hear your opinion and I was hoping you could give me some advice, since this is going to be my first time doing anything. And yeah, I don`t wanna end up pregnant at 20, so how can I protect myself effectively.And, yeah, the guy is twenty something, not much older.thx
2007-02-25 10:09:35 · 5 answers · asked by Lanalee W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you are ready for a bf and to get intimate with him. That's great! Rule #1 is always have him wear a condom if you're going all the way. If you're on birth control (probly not) you won't need the condom, but only after you're sure he has no STDs. If he's had some experieince before there's always a chance. So have him checked before you get to that point. It's a simple little blood test he can have done at any doctor office.
Since you aren't experienced yet this will be a fun time of learning how men's and women's bodies work so well together. Don't feel you have to go all the way right away. Take your time and enjoy it. He will probly show you a few things, so follow his lead and go only as far as you want to. If you ever feel like you don't want to do something, tell him to stop. Tell him again and get out of there if he keeps trying.
Good luck. I hope it will be a wonderful experience for both of you.
2007-02-25 10:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you've waited and that's great. Second, religion has nothing to do with waiting for marriage to have sex. It has to do with saving yourself for the right person. Should this man be the right one, than it will be worth waiting for. Otherwise you set yourself up for heartbreak. But, if you can't wait, go on the pill, use condoms, or get an IUD. Know that there is no unplanned pregnancy. Having sex means you are taking the risk of becoming pregnant. Also, find out about his past. We've had so many girls in out practice ending up with unwanted STDs. I'm proud of you, by the way. Best wishes.
2007-02-25 18:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by VW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
protection is two pronged pregancy and disease --- get on the pill to make sure that pregancy is not a problem and always use a condom to prevent disease --- carry them with you as you cant rely upon the guy --- have fun and best wishes
2007-02-25 18:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its to early to start first of. second if he is in his 20's you shouldnt worry he will teach you everything i guess just be sure to know that if you dont want to do something tell him to stop and just talk with him and if your planning on having sex be sure to wrap his Johnson up with a condom
2007-02-25 18:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by KrazySweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD BECOME HIS GF..
BUT IF YOU DON'T WANT TO GET PREGNANT,ASK HIM TO WAIT TELL YOUR READY................
2007-02-25 18:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by Mz. Tasty Pop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋