2007-02-25 10:09:32 · 6 answers · asked by themalator 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Stop trying to live up to others expectations-live up to your expectations of you.
2007-02-25 10:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by Terry Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, i think i fell just like you! i try to live up to everyones standards cuz they think im perfect and extremely smart, and im always stressed about that (which is why i HAD an ed, but i wasnt thin enough to tell that i had one...i just looked leaner)then i would cry every night cuz i kept being critical about myself and saying that there is always someone better than you.
enough about me------think of yourself as an individual with unique abilities, take life one day at a time, if you mess up its okay because nobody is perfect, ignore the pressure by exerciseing or some good old meditation or relaxation, think of everyones "expectations" as compliements and not standards that you'll have to meet, dont live by the "expectations" and live based on your soul, and most importantly BE YOURSELF<33
2007-02-25 18:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by K e l l i 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me I am a lot like you. I try to please everybody. I am just now starting to learn that's not going to work. People say it is not good to be a people pleaser. Just think about that next time. I am having to learn to do the same. The answer is really in your mind. Just don't worry about what other people say and think about you and what you should do.
2007-02-25 18:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by tennisluver90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must change you way of thinking. Learn to be true to yourself. Your attitude should be one of "what's good for ME" without hurting anyone. It is just impossible to please everyone. In the end you are the one that matters.
2007-02-25 18:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by 321Taylor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Set goals for yourself, write them down..
2007-02-25 18:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by nursey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to prison
2007-02-25 22:31:25 · answer #6 · answered by stashspade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋