Why would any one want to be gay?

Question

Heres what I think,
Simply don't be gay. Don't choose that lifestyle. It is a sin and God strictly forbids it (I am not religious but I know enough about the Bible to know that). Gayness is a learned behavior not something you are born with. I will teach my daughter when she is older (she is 3 years old know) that it is a sin to be gay and it is not normal. She will not be gay because I will teach her it is Immoral. Homosexuality used to be aganst the law but it is legal anywhere now, this is a sign of moral decay. I believe in morals and family values and me and my fiancee (who I live with) both strongly feel this way. I am 17 by the way but I am old enough to know right from wrong and gay is wrong, morally and religiously. So how could any one say Homosexuality is normal and natural?

I 17 and am male. Some answers suggest I am female. Also the Bible says it is wrong. Like i said I am not religious but i know right from wrong and gay is wrong and i will teach my 3 year old daughter it is wrong to be gay.

Also my daughter is 3 and a half. I was not 14 when she was born I was 13. And like i said I am male not female.I just have custody of my daughter.

Answer 1

Did YOU choose to be heterosexual? Can you just "switch" back and forth from one to the other? Some people just are not attracted to the opposite sex damn it why cant you understand that!?

If you can't just turn homosexual if I asked you to, then you cant expect a homosexual to just change to heterosexual. You dont just "learn" these things. No one "teaches" people to be gay, in fact, they don't realize it untill later. Its not something you can change just like that.

And yes, do teach your daughter to judge people simply because of their sexual preference, for that is definitely the right way to go! Oh yes, we need more people like that because we don't have enough! Such a lovely plan you have. I sure hope your daughter is smarter than you are, dear.


"It is not normal"
--------Let's take a look at what "normal" means, shall we? The world "normal" generaly means the most common characteristic of all things in a certain category, . Sorry, hon, but nowhere does it say that "normal" is always a good thing.



You are a very ignorant person.




Best wishes,!! I will certainly pray for a cure for stupidity :)

Answer 2

Dude, you left yourself wide open to get hit from every direction. I don't think it's just a simple answer of 'Simply don't be gay' or 'Don't choose that lifestyle'. Children do learn what they see usually, but in this case, I'm more inclined to believe genetics plays a part in this too. What you should be teaching your daughter is that God says to love the Sinner, hate the sin. Because sin is sin in His eyes. Some of us grew up being taught that what you've just done, is sin (bringing a child into the world before marriage, sex before marriage). So why have sex before marriage? Simply don't do it! Don't choose that lifestyle! See the pattern? Again, Sin is Sin. So if I were you, I wouldn't be throwing any stones at anyone, straight or gay. Remember, love the sinner, hate the sin. I wish you luck. The world is hard enough as it is--you're a baby with a baby. One thing I taught my children was they shouldn't have sex before marriage, but I knew that they probably would and to at least be smart enough to use protection. If you can't take care of yourself, how can you expect to take care of a family? God be with you! You will need all the help you can get!

Answer 3

Ok first of all hunny if you have a 3 year old daughter at home and shes yours not your fiancees then you had her at a WAY too young age, which was stupid. And your ONLY 17. You are old enough to know right from wrong but you don't know everything. Being gay isn't a lifestyle and you can't stop your daughter from having feelings or tendencies towards other women, doing so will cause her to rebel and do things against your will. Not being gay is not simple either. I am not but I have friends who are and they are people just like you and I and they will have their own morals and values like a human being. You have a lot to learn in your life before you teach your daughter things you don't even know about.

Answer 4

well, if you want to be technical with Bible talk it is WRONG to have sex before marriage, and since you couldnt have been married when you were 13, you sinned. also, according to our society, it is WRONG to have sex when you are only 13. as for being gay, you need to do more research on this before you start running your mouth, sexual preference is an INBORN trait, yes, a part of it is learned, but for the most part, it is inborn, a gay person does NOT CHOOSE to be gay, they are born that way. Research it (beyond the religious websites that will only say it is a sin) and you will find that many studies have been done on this that show that sexual preference is inborn. Just imagine if one day someone said it is a sin to be heterosexual, you could not just change who you like. And by the way, in case you were wondering, i am not gay, i was not born that way.

Answer 5

Have you ever met a gay person before? If you havent, please do, and talk to them like a normal person. Why do you have to hate them just because they are different? It is not their decision, it is just the way they are. Sexuality is something that you are born with, like your skin color, or your height. You are obviously too immature to be handling the life of a child (makes sense cause you were obviously too immature to keep it zipped when you were 13). Remember, historians have estimated that the Bible was written by over 100 different people. Just cause a couple of them thought homosexuality was a sin, doesnt mean that God thinks it is a sin.

Answer 6

Its not a choice. If you found it's wrong to be straight would you change your sexuality? Wrong and right are just judgements. You have issues with people being gay. They're your issues. Dont pass them on to your daughter. The world is becoming more exepting and screwing up your daughter to be predudiced will only hurt her. People used to believe and outlaw all sorts of things. Black people were considered animals an enslaved. Jewish people were once considered animals and slaughtered and tortured. If you want to join in with even a part of all this predudism its you that needs to open your mind, because you wont change others.

Answer 7

You are an f-ing hypocrite. You are 17 with a 3 year old which means you were having premarital sex when you were 13/14 years old.... so who are you to tell anyone what is right from wrong?
Being homosexual IS something that people are born with. You are seriously mentally delinquent. You cannot say that your daughter will not be gay.
Homosexuality was never against the law... your information is wrong.
You who believes in morals yet has a child at 14 years of age and now is 17 and living with your fiance... and I am sure is still having premarital sex. HYPOCRITE!!!!!!
You are not God, therefore you have no right to judge others for their actions. Lest you be judged for yours.
Do you actually think that someone will go to hell for being gay??? They will no more go to hell than you will for your decisions in life. I like to believe that our God is a forgiving one and he wouldn't make us all different if he wanted us to all be the same... oh yeah, God did not write the Bible either.

Answer 8

First of all, people don't judge him just because he had a kid at a young age. Alot of people do and it's no different then having a kid when your 60. My boyfriend is 14 and has a kid also.

Really though, what's wrong with gay people? IMO, if you really love somebody then it shouldn't matter if they're the same gender as you or not. This is just like saying that black people can't date white people, or 16 year olds can't date 17 year olds, 'love is blind' and I really think you need to learn the meaning of that.

Answer 9

While I don't care whose gay or not your question provoked answers that made me see how people really think of people who have had children at a young age. I'm a 22 year old mother of a 7 year old and couldn't be happier, wouldn't change a thing. People don't generally tell one what they think until that person p's someone else off. All the people who bashed him for having a child at a young age must not have had pre-marital sex then huh? Must tell him it's wrong to be judgmental while you tell him how wrong it is to have a kid so young right? Like THAT'S good in god's book?

Answer 10

You can sin and be heterosexual. With adultry and fornication, etc. Being homosexual is not anymore of a sin in God's eyes then your heterosexual sins and any other sin. God hates sin, not the sinner. And don't get me wrong, I'm a Christian.

I have a friend who goes both ways, but leans more towards guys. All throughout highschool he would deny he even liked guys, but everyone could tell. He tried to like girls more for years, but couldn't. Now, he's more happy just being himself.

Sinning is wrong. All sin is wrong and there's no "worse" or "better" sin. It includes what you may think as "small sins" like "lying", "stealing", and "idolatry", etc. And everyone is sinners, so God strictly forbids all of your sins too, buddy. If everyone gets what they deserve, they will go to hell.

Don't preach to anyone else, unless you preach to yourself in the process. You're not perfect, either.