My family has hurt and hurt me and I have felt obligated to allow them in my and my kids lives. After turning 30 I moved an hour away and just stopped explaining how they hurt me. I stopped 'trying to work it out'. I stopped giving into guilt and manipulation. They dont' have much to do with me or my kids now. How do I let go of the guilt and obligation I feel? Keeping my mother from her daughter. Keeping my grandparents from their great grandkids. Keeping my mom from the role of a grandmother. I know they did this to themselves and had many years of warning to 'stop' treating me and my kids like this. How do I set myself free from the obligation of having them in my life.
2007-02-25
09:48:20
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they can't see it and blame me for being rebellious and deceived. They ask 'wouldn't you even come to our funeral?' I just don't want anything to do with them
2007-02-25
09:49:29 ·
update #1