Hey, ive been having issues with my g/f latley. We get along fine, its just that shes really shy it seems. Like when we walk and i put my arm around her, she starts to walk realyl quickly, and we hug, but i usualy have to ask for it. Does this mean she is just goin out with me as a pitty thing, or should i not worry. Cause we've been goin out for about 3 weeks, and ive hugged her, but thats as far as we've gone. Your opinion would help out alot. She is everythign to me, and i dont want to lose her.
2007-02-25 09:44:02 · 16 answers · asked by Dan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we're both 16, soon to be 17
2007-02-25 09:48:11 · update #1
well if she really didn't like you I doubt she would be dating you at all. She probably is just shy like you said. If it bothers you then sit her down be honest about your feelings and get her input on the situation. I mean go to the source. If you want to know something ask her. Good luck!
2007-02-25 09:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just ask her if there is a problem. Maybe she is not to that comfortable point yet to freely hug or hold hands, etc. Talking is the best communication to get things out in the open. If you don't ask then it is just as much your fault not trying to find the answer to the problem if there even is a problem.
2007-02-25 17:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by Tickle Me Pink! 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Does she say she likes you? Is the shyness the only reason you think its a pity thing. if thats the only reason you think that, then it probably is just her being a shy person
Just reassure her that you wouldn't make her do anything she doesn't feel comfortable doing, you like her a lot and dont want to ruin that. Get her trust by being trustworthy and making her feel comfortable, not by lying or making things up
good luck
2007-02-25 17:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't see how she can be everything to you after just a few weeks. My guess would be that she is just not comfortable with pda or she is the type that likes to take things slow. Give her some time and if she still acts this way, you should talk to her about it.
2007-02-25 17:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by Sweets 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She might be dating you out of pitty. Or maybe, sadly enough, she may be with another guy....I would break it off between the two of you. 3 weeks is very short for saying that she is your everything. I would move on, let her feel weird for herself, someone else will want to give you a hug, *and maybe even more!!* lol!
2007-02-25 17:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It seems to me that you are going a little to fast for her. Take your relationship more slowly. Instead of hugging, hold hands. But if it continues for a long time you shold ask her about what s bothering her. Hope this helps!
2007-02-25 17:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by lynette 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like she likes you but is shy. Take it slow, the more she gets used to hugging, holding hands etc the more comfortable she'll be with it.
2007-02-25 18:08:39 · answer #7 · answered by uz 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't take things to fast. She may feel rushed or annoyed if you show affection to her so early.
2007-02-25 17:49:00 · answer #8 · answered by sunflowerdaisy94 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she might not like PDA or she just doesnt want to take things too fast
2007-02-25 17:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by hoplessly_in_love 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you haven't been going out for that mong yet, so i'd relax. she's probably not fully comfortable yet. give her a while to warm up to you.
2007-02-25 17:48:14 · answer #10 · answered by beatles luver 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋