I loved my b/f, but I realise now just how self centred he was and I made excuses for him because I cared for him so much.. Hopefully now we are apart he will realise what he has lost and that he needs to change his behaviour if he starts another relationship.
how would you feel if you were me?????????????/
2007-02-25 09:43:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you loved him and he treated you badly then it's his bad luck. Now that he hasn't got you he will now what he is missing, get on with your life and put him behind you
2007-02-25 09:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by kittiebann 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would feel thakful that I finally woke up and smelled the coffee. Life is too short to be imprisoned in a dead end relationship. Not knowing you from Adam(or Eve), and not knowing the whole situation, I would be hesitant to say he was a jerk, but if he was a jerk, you made a wise decision. Now, get on with your life and don't fall into the same old trap. Be positive and find someone with a positive attitude that realizes a diamond among the stones.
2007-02-25 17:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by rexallen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know...I don't know your bf or how close you two were, what "self centered" things he did that drove you away, or anything so cannot say how I'd feel. When any relationship ends there is typically some sadness, even if it ending was best for both people, it's sad that things didn't work out well as was initially hoped.
I hope you are happier now if you feel this was the best move for you. Best wishes in your future.
2007-02-25 17:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably a little upset. Who wouldn't? It's not easy ending a relationship. On the other hand, you learned something that will help make your other relationships stronger. So you are also entitled to feel fortunate.
Nature loves to fill a void. Move on. When two people come together to give, then both receive. Don't settle for anything less.
2007-02-25 17:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by anmlprht 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad, you just gave up someone that you loved. Why didnt you talk to him about it first and see if he could change for you. Maybe he did not realize how self centered he was? Maybe that is just his personality. But maybe you are better off with out him. Hopefully you will find someone that cares for you or he may realizer how much he misses you and change.
2007-02-25 17:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by CrazyChic86 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lousy but also a lot better. 1. Your happiness comes first. 2. Consider it a learning experience and thats very important. Good Luck!
2007-02-25 17:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be relieved that I got out before things got worse!! And I'd vow to be more careful about who I get involved with in the future!
2007-02-25 17:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would feel a little confused.. But you need to center yourself and go on.. to a new relationship.. First you need to be okay with yourself and then try with someone new!
2007-02-25 17:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by The.Girl.From.The.Rockshow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be sad. but you just have to remember all the bad things he did, they probably outweighted the good things about him. Maybe he will change.
2007-02-25 17:48:51 · answer #9 · answered by one_thing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd be more lucky if you understood the rules of grammar.
2007-02-25 17:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋