In a hypothetical situation, lets say a guy is hitting on you. What are the factors of how you are react. Say you don't know him that well and he is pretty bad at flirting, but very good looking. What kind of reaction would you have?
My general question is if a guy is good looking, but you don't know him that well how would you react? would you be turned off or would you like it because he is good looking?
Now say a less good looking guy is hitting on you and you don't know him that well either. However he is much more suave and funny as he hits on you.. how would you react to that situation?
Basically what factors make someone hitting on you attractive. IS any kind of behavior along those lines acceptable or desirable in certain circumstances?
2007-02-25 09:40:52 · 6 answers · asked by Dude56177 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Any time that guys have ever "hit on" me, I have been turned off because I don't like the obvious "hey, let's get together" attitude that being hit on conveys. It implies that the guy is only interested in me because he likes what he sees. I am so much more than how I look. Now if a guy makes casual conversation with me, and we get along and enjoy each other's company, THEN I have not objected to him wanting to dance, getting to know me better or asking me out. This tells me that he is interested in me for ME. It doesn't matter what a guy looks like. The classic "hitting on" that many guys do is a major turn-off in my book. I am engaged, but if I were still single, I would much prefer a guy to just be friendly and sociable and perhaps not even ask me out at all until they've been around me a couple times or until we've spent a great deal of time talking and we know we hit it off well. That's just me though. I know it's hard to be the guy trying to get the attention of a woman and women can be so cruel and mean to guys who are just trying to show an interest. We women should be flattered - not put off. I for one, am never mean to a guy and I am disgusted at women who are. That's just not cool. Guys, just make small talk with a woman. Be friendly. Let her see that you don't have ulterior motives. Then she will be more likely to be interested in you - unless of course SHE has ulterior motives.
2007-02-25 09:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is good looking but bad at flirting, I would be more inclined to give him a second chance, because he could be inexperienced. But I would watch out and make sure it's not all an act.
But if he is ugly and really good at flirting, it would make me think he does the same thing to other girls on a daily basis. And I would wonder why he honestly expects to score when he walks around looking like that.. Yeah, it's true, looks come first. That would lead me to think he is shallow and just looking for a 'good time'.
Of course there are other things to take into account here but that would be my first impressions.
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2007-02-25 09:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, every woman is different. We all have different levels of self assurance, different preferences, and different tastes. That said, if the guy is movie star gorgeous, I would probably respond well because having a guy that looks that good interested in me would make me feel better about my own appearance. On the other hand, if someone makes me laugh, and comes across as sincere, not just "on the make" I would probably respond well.
2007-02-25 09:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how they talk. if they come up have a convo and are like what are you doing after this... slight hints that could let you get out eather way.
guy: hey how are you i realy think this (store or where ever your at) is a nice place (anything to start a convo.
girl: feeds in to convo
guy: so what are you doing after this
girl: "oh going over to my b/f's house *big signal to guy no thanks*
(just say ok have a good timw with your b/f)
or
girl: well im meeting my dad but im free tomarrow
cool now get her number
for me the guy has to talk to me like a person dont care how he looks
2007-02-25 09:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a guy who is confident and can talk - a good looking, but shallow, guy just doesn't do it for me. Then again, I'm a bit older. Suave and funny are always good.
2007-02-25 09:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by confused (again) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The persons personality!
The personality is the Most Beautiful!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-25 09:47:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋