17 and never been kissed... :(?

Question

my ex tried to kiss me a few times and then i kept pushing him away cuz i didnt know how to do it...whats the deal??? how am i supposed to know how to do it, when i have never kissed anyone before???

Answer 1

Don't worry about it. It just kind of happens. I know it seems odd, but it's true.

Answer 2

well, so you had an "ex" that you had never kissed ...? it wasn't your then ...!! and well, how could expect to be kissed if you didn't let your ex to even try it with you ..there is nothing complicated in kissing , it's about putting two mouths together and shewing the lips of each other ...!! as simple as that ...!!
well, if you keep on doing that to all the men, it's probably that you 'll 50 and you'll never been kissed at all ...!!!
u're case is serious ..really ...sorry dude ..!!

Answer 3

I was 19 when I had my first kiss. I let the guy know that I had never been kissed and he said don't worry. So from my experience . . . you shouldn't worry about it. You just have to go along with what he's doing and let it happen. I think the important thing is to be comfortable with the guy and to let him know. Good Luck!!!

Answer 4

I feel the same way! I don't know "how" to kiss and that stops me from doing it because then I get nervous. Someday, though, you just need to do it because you dont want to end up being the 40 year old never been kissed. :-) I think it happens naturally and you will just know what to do. Just have fun!!

Answer 5

Dont worry! its not such a big deal.. think of something.. There is always a first time.. isnt it? You just kiss... do what you feel.. If it goes wrong then you can do it better next time.. you need to fall to stand up... 17 and not been kissed yet isn't bad.. think that you havnt wasted your lips on useless ppl!

GREAT PAGE

www.virtualkiss.com (or virtual kissing i dont remember)

Answer 6

Do only what you feel comfortable doing. That being said the only way to learn how to kiss is to kiss or you can try practicing on your hand ( i saw that one in a movie :))

Answer 7

Control your saliva! No man likes to really be drooled on. Keep your lips in good shape. Rough, dry, chapped lips are no fun to kiss. Break out the lip balm and use it. You hear it every day but I’ll say it again, the fresher your breath the better.
The correct lip tension for kissing is quite an art. Too loose and you feel lazy and uninterested, too tight and you feel mean and tense.
Don’t surprise a new man with a kiss of overwhelming force and passion. It works in the movies because it’s in the script, for you at home it may come across as attempted date rape. It usually leaves the man longing for the closest exit. Yes, you may be burning with desire for him but you’ve got to slowly and carefully get his libido up to the same speed as yours.
Kissing isn’t just for the lips. Anywhere a man is particularly sensitive he likes to be kissed. When was the last time you kissed the nape of his neck, his wrist, his ears, his stomach.
Don’t try and figure out how sensitive his gag reflex is with your tongue while French kissing! The goal is to enjoy yourselves, not see how far down the back of her throat you can get your tongue.
Mix it up. Kissing in the same way for prolonged periods of time can get really boring. This isn’t a marathon for how long you can keep your tongue in her mouth. Mix up the long deep kisses with short soft ones on his forehead, his cheek, and her neck…and of course back to his lips.
Learn from the acting pros and don’t forget your hands. Ever wonder why women still swoon at the mention of Richard Gere’s name? The man is an ace kisser, he puts his whole body into it, and he uses his hands to coddle and caress a woman’s face, he run his hands through her hair, and leans into her with his hips. Ever watched Bull Durham? Check out Kevin Costner’s lip action (no, you don’t have to tell anyone, do your own private research man). In last year’s Cold Mountain Jude Law gives Nicole Kidman such a dazzling kiss as he runs off to war that she literally goes weak in the knees. That’s the kind of kissing action I’m talking about.
Don’t work too hard. Kissing is for fun and pleasure, if you’re breaking a sweat from effort (not from chemistry) you’re working too hard. Sit back, relax and let him come to you at times…don’t always be chasing him with your tongue and your hands. Learn to give and take. See what he can teach you.
Don’t go frenching his ears unless you know for a fact she loves it. Some women adore big wet kisses in their soundboards, but too many others HATE it. Don’t ruin a great mood by doing something that will gross her out.
Do tug gently on his earlobes with your teeth (again gently) when you kiss his neck and while you’re at it why not whisper a compliment or wicked suggestion?
Be brave enough to ask for pointers when getting to know a new man. Remember kissing is a matter of personal taste, what one man likes isn’t going to always work for another, but if you hear a particular suggestion more than once you know it’s something you’ve got to work on.
Leave him wanting more. Don’t kiss him so much that her lips are raw and his face aches – leave him wanting more of you, not less (especially in the beginning). Hope this helps you out.

Answer 8

No one "knows" how to do it. I was like you, I don't think I kissed til I was 16. Just go for it if you're ready and follow his lead. Trust me, it comes naturally after the initial leap.

Answer 9

well thts the thing your never ganna no how unless u go ahead & let them kiss you ... you may think its a big deal now but kissing isnt realy tht big of a thing go ahead & kiss then the next time they try

Answer 10

be glad you actually have someone to call yuor ex. I'm 15 and I never had a boyfriend. EVER. Never been kissed either. You're not alone. ;-)

Answer 11

Let him kiss you and it'll just happen. Don't over think it, don't over complicate it just lay back and enjoy it. If you're having a good time so will he.....relax. Don't make it something hard when it isn't.