Need advice from the ladies - How do I know if this lady really likes me or what she's possibly thinking?

Question

I feel like she has her eye on me. She sits behind me and one seat over in class but I often turn around to find her looking at me. She has never talked to me before. What does this really mean? One time I was asked to help the instructor count hands as we were voting on something. So, I stood up as we voted on a few different things and when I looked at her, she was looking right back into my eyes with sort of a "longing" look. I want to approach her in class but I"m really scared of how she'll react and I'm scared of doing that in front of other classmates for fear of embarrassing her or myself. Ladies, I need your advice on this.


Thanks,
Jasper

Answer 1

Jasper, you sly dog, smile at her and let the fun begin. She likes you.

Answer 2

Most girls love it when a guy is bold and makes the first move. It sounds like she's interested, but doesn't really know you that well and doesn't know what to say. Trust me, don't wait around, if you like her or are interested, go for it. Try to talk to her sometime maybe between classes so that way you won't feel like everyone is listening to you asking her out or anything. But don't let that opportunity slip by you. I've done that too many times, and I regret it. Definitely though-be the man, girls think that's hott.

Answer 3

I was in the same situation (the girl part, of course) and I really liked him but I was too shy to approach him and I was just wishing he would talk to me..just to SAY ANYTHING! I think you should occasionally say hi to her or just get to know her a little better cause it sounds to me she really likes you but she's just too shy! The guy I am talking about in my situation is now my boyfriend and has been for many months and if one of us never came out of our shell, none of this would've happened! I am so thankful that one of us took the chance because it's so much better, you get what you want!

Answer 4

Well, you'll never know if you don't try. Start out just casually speaking to her. Say hello, or comment on the day's subject matter. That won't be awkward, and you will gradually get more at ease. Also, you won't come on too strong. Work your way up to asking her to join you for coffee, and see how it goes. Good luck.

Answer 5

I'm a lady an' i got ur answer. She might like you, but most often, girls don't show a look of longing on thier afce. maybe she was longing to vote. jk. i say that u don't do anythiing until u r sure that she likes you or u might get hurt.

Answer 6

She is definitely giving you the signs to approach her! It sounds to me like she is totaly into you. Don't be scared. Someone once said "Don't let the fear of striking out, keep you from playing the game."

Answer 7

I asware she's don't know any thing about you and she don't care about you , and you just Think she's looking at you cos you don't trust by you're self you need to trust by you're self and don't care if you eye coming with hear eye That happen , and maybe happen in too much time , but that don't mean she's love you or take care about you and you will see what i toking about it , if you really try to toking with hear ... or ask hear about date.

Answer 8

well i would only stare at a guy like that if i thought he was hella cute or something.other then that i wouldnt stare at the guy i like for fear of getting caught in the process.lol.but all girls are different.maybe she does like you..you should go for it.ask her after class or something.

Answer 9

she likes you and wants you to approach her. She sounds like she is shy or not familiar with men so when you do approach her take it slow and don't come on too strong

Answer 10

yeah or she jsutwants to renowned you greater. i think of perchance she needs to hold back reason she had a superb time astounding out final time and had a calming time final time. carry out back perchance it may lead somehwhere : )