you can feel a guy pressing against you while dancing. Its nice to know that he's excited but . . . .
2007-02-25 09:04:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not a matter of being rude, but it's a matter what what you like. If you do not like a guy doing that, say something about it. Tell them that you are not comfortable with that, and if they don't stop, walk off. Stand up for yourself.
If I am not dating the person that is doing it, then yes, I have a problem with it. It's more or less someone doing a bit too much without proper permission.
2007-02-25 09:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asks you to dance with him again just tell him not if he is going to press up against you as you feel uncomfortable with it, or just say no as I think it's degrading to a women if that is on a mans mind when he is dancing with a female
2007-02-25 17:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by kittiebann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on what u r dancing...but sometimes it can b rude if u dont really like the guy or u r just not feeling like that happening....But if u liked it is your problem cuz everyone thinks differently but if u didnt liked it tell him not to do it again...
2007-02-25 17:12:27 · answer #3 · answered by Gemini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just had a dance, and dance with my crush, I turned around for a second and he grabbed my hips and his chest was pushed up against my back, and I liked it. Im not a slut. I just really like him. I guess it depends.
2007-02-25 17:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by santacruz_soccer_chik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're dancing wild enough to excite the guy then it's your fault. He can't exactly control himself if you know what I mean.
2007-02-25 17:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by Smeather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is rude for a guy to do that and not care. You should totally back away and snap at him. Tell him he can do that in private but not publically and rub it all over you. Ewwwww!
2007-02-25 17:13:46 · answer #6 · answered by MC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
knee him...
he can't say much - just tell him "oh I'm sorry - I couldn't help myself"
It's most likely what he's wanting you to think about his stiffie poking you..
I've kicked a guy in the head when he laid down on the dance floor to look up my skirt :) He got kicked out of the club immediately.
2007-02-25 17:08:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, I'm a guy, but I'd like to point out that yes, we can help it, it takes willpower, but it's kind of pathetic on the guy's part if he can't control himself. I haven't had that problem since the first girl I ever went out with.
2007-02-25 17:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys can't help it, but even so, if he knows hes got it, then he should dance farther away from u, or excuse himself and go to the bathroom until it is gone or something.
2007-02-25 17:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by yo. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he needs to use some self control in public.
2007-02-25 17:07:39 · answer #10 · answered by sosueme534 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋