what should i do when this girl i dont really like flirts with me 24/7 and follows me around all the time? i dont know of a nice way 2 tell her. please help me. thanks.
2007-02-25 09:02:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I am a girl who did that samething to a boy in highschool years ago!!! I will tell you this I wish that he would have told me he wasn't even a little bit interested in me, but instead he acted real cool to me and kind of lead me on just to be nice as you are kinda sayin you don't want to be mean. Well this went on my whole freshman year I was in love or what I thought was love, and that boy never even like me as a friend just didn't want to hurt my feelings. Well I wish he would have hurt my feelings from the gate then wait untill I thought he liked me and I thought he loved me and drop the bomb on me. Just tell her to stop and your not interested trust me you'll regret it in the end. Good Luck
2007-02-25 09:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by renesarah1209 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There sometimes isnt a nice way to reject someone. If she is genuinely making you uncomfortable (and if you arent flirting back with her) then there is only one thing to do: tell her. Do it succinctly, politely, respectfully, and most importantly, clearly.
Dont ask a friend to tell her. Dont make a scene in front of her. Dont ask one of her friends for help. Dont do any of that stuff.
It doesnt sound like you want to hurt this girl so like I said just be honest and tell her.
2007-02-25 17:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by john s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't be mean to her...
okay, now that that is out of the way this is what you do...
You should tease her about her having a crush on you and if she is a friend tell her about how you are crushing on another girl. It sounds harsh but it is better than saying "I don't like you stalker!"
2007-02-25 17:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by Roxie Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you have a girlfriend, and if someone tells your g/f that a girl has been flirting with you it could really mess up your relationship
2007-02-25 17:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by xtaticlyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a childhood crush, just tell her nicely, honesty is the best policy....dont we all appreciate honesty??
2007-02-25 17:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by *sweetstuff* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her nicely, but do it in private and don't talk to other people about it. She will be embarrassed enough without knowing other people knew.
2007-02-25 17:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by Petra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call bunnyboiler.com. lol no seriously just tell her straight out. But do it without an audience. Save her feelings.
2007-02-25 17:07:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fart pick at your but and wet your underarms of your shirt then expell some belches if that dont work flick a boogie at her
2007-02-25 17:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by fred l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you rather have her totally love you and stock you or do you really want her just to leave you a lone?... if you want her to leave you alone then tell her how you feel about her and that you don't like her and you like someone else... and see what she does...
2007-02-25 17:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by tieu30thu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her
dont try to be nice when your still gonna make her sad
2007-02-25 17:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by hoplessly_in_love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋