I am tired of being alone. I am tired of being "just a friend". I am tired of never being good enough to be whole heartedly loved. I am tired of being single, I just want to be loved. I want to have someone in my life. I want to be able to hug this person, and in the hug, know that they will never hurt me. I want to kiss this person and know that in that kiss, they will never leave me. I want to be able to talk to this person and know that they will never use my words against me. I want to be able to have someone in my life who loves me for me and would never want to live without me. I want to be told "I Love You" and it actually be ment. I want someone in my life to make me happy.
I have been told that a guy like this doesnt exist, and that this guy is just a dream of mine I have. But, the point is, is I just want to feel loved and appretiated and feel that I am good enough to by whole heartedly loved by someone.
2007-02-25 08:58:56 · 6 answers · asked by kimberly... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my question is, is has anyone else felt like this. that they are tired of being alone and just want someone to love them?
2007-02-25 09:03:27 · update #1
my happiness is not tied to having a relationship. I have other ways to make myself happy. I just havent been in a good relationship. I have been in one relationship and it was a very bad one. I just want to know i can be loved by someone on more then a friend level.
2007-02-25 09:09:54 · update #2
feel free to IM/email me if u want....
2007-02-25 09:12:35 · update #3
Okay, first off, what is wrong with being single? If your happiness tied into having a relationship with a guy, then you are not a very confident person. Being confident in who you are as a single woman rather than who you are just dating someone. The reality of life is that someone is going to break your heart. Someone is going to want your body and not your heart. Someone is going to want your heart and not your body. Someone is going to want you for you and that is the one you will keep. Stop worry about it now, and just live your life.
You do not have to have a boyfriend in order to feel loved. Do you not have friends that care about you deeply? That is a love that cannot be the same that a boyfriend will give you. You need to appriecate and be happy with what you have right now rather than worrying so much about what you do not have. You are good enough. You simply haven't found the person that is good enough for you.
2007-02-25 09:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will he dose exist but you may have just walked by him with out giving him a second look, sometime you might see a guy but say will he to short or to tall a little to big for me that could be him.
Get to know the person inside the man before casting him away. Men and women are like chocolate you never know what you’re going to get until you sample a few. Keep looking but look in places you never thought of before.
I hope to find the person with all the qualities you list above as will.
Good luck and keep on smiling
2007-02-25 09:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. Everyone wants to be loved. That special someone you want everybody calls a dream or doesn't exist, but that's what they want you to think. There's always someone in your life, that's not exactly perfect but comes close to it. Following your heart and your dream can sometimes work, if you try your hardest and your best, that special someone will come to you, and treat you the way you want to be treated. Just don't act stupid, and that person won't treat you stupid. Say it loud and proud.
2007-02-25 09:04:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello. Ok I do not know how old you are. But if you are younger . Look for a man that is older. Men are not worth very much till they hit 30. Yes men are out there that will care for you and will want you for who you are. And they will love you for who you are nd not try to change you.You haft to put yourself in the areas to find these men and a bar or a college party is not it.It is hard and not fun . I am alone and i look for a great woman. we all can find a man or a woman but it sounds like you want a great man. Best wishes RAY
2007-02-25 09:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by ????????????????????? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way. All my friends have found someone to love, and the guy I love (who happens to be my best friend) loves someone else. I just want to be loved. What is so unloveable about me? I feel your pain.
2007-02-25 09:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by Lexi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's someone for everyone.
2007-02-25 09:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋