i'm a woman and up until recently i've never questioned my sexuality, but sometimes i find myself physically attracted to other women...esspecially celebs ie jessica simpson, britney spears, christina ricci, etc... i never actually want to be with a woman i just like the way they look and sometimes have sexual feelings towards them, does that mean i'm a lesbian? i've been with my boyfriend 5 years now and i'm very much attracted to him.
2007-02-25 08:51:06 · 26 answers · asked by One Curious Woman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your probably not fully lesbian but your just curious about being lesbian. Looking at the features of a woman and how it affects you is a different story but. I mean, you probably don't have to be lesbian. Maybe your curious about being bisexual.
2007-02-25 08:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are a lesbian ..everyone at one point in their life question their sexuality .it's completely normal.Maybe someday when you are ready you may want to try being with a woman just to get to the bottom of these feelings..i suggest you talk to your boyfriend about having a threesome..i know this sounds crazy but atleast this way you will find out for sure how you feel for real..and without having to break-up or cheat on your boyfriend because remember even if you sleep with a woman and not a man it's still cheating..
2007-02-25 16:59:33 · answer #2 · answered by rcbrokebones 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A lesbian woman hardly sees males and are never interested in carrying on a relationship with a male .If you're attracted towards a few movie stars , it might only be an insignificant thing , because of the pleasure that you're seeing in their faces . It does not mean that you're a lesbian .
2007-02-25 19:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, if you were a lesbian i'm pretty sure you wouldn't be very attracted to a man. Especially being with him for five years. Maybe you are just curious, I also think if you were a lesbian you would be attracted to a woman that is attainable not someone that you will probably never meet.
2007-02-25 16:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you are simply in awe with your favourites and the way they present themselves. There is nothing abnormal in this. It can also tend to become excessive as can be seen in the mass-hysteria generated by some of these celebrities eg Michael Jackson, Beatles,Elvis, David Backhem, etc. This can also be as a result of media-hype. Sometimes this extreme form of adulation can also manifest as a fantasy and what better way than a sexual one. Maybe, you are experiencing this which has aroused your present doubts to which the female gender is more prone to.
Finally, your last sentence proves me right.
2007-02-25 23:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by mcmohan40 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you are a lesbian. You can be attracted to anyone, it doesn't matter what their orientation is. Many women think other women are gorgeous. There is nothing wrong with looking at a beautiful person and commenting. You don't have to act on it. But, some peoplle will experiment to find out if they are romantically into their own sex.
2007-02-25 16:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by sara_p_14 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think its just curiosity caught the cat really... I mean if you find something missing within yourself then maybe you might have to take a deeper look into that but otherwise your only human... strange things occur unexpectedly I guess but it doesnt make you a lesbian
2007-02-25 16:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is such a thing as being bi-sexual, which means you may be one of those rare and wonderful people who's able to enjoy the best of both worlds. More power to you!
2007-02-25 16:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by Reo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it doesn't mean your lesbian. At least I don't think. TO me being Lesbian means that you absolutly adore Woman. I think girls are pretty but I love boys to death. I'm not lesbian. So your in the clear. I think
2007-02-25 16:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by krunckbaby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're not a lesbian. maybe very mildly bisexual. but lots of women r like that...even myself i admit. it's good 2 b attracted to women as well as men that way u'll never feel envious of beautiful girls...so b happy! n stick with ur bf!
2007-02-25 19:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by hollym 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋