hey i am a 14 year old guy and i have a question about what to do after the 1st kiss. Last nite i gave girlfriend our very 1st kiss on the lips. it wasnt perfect but we talked later on AIM and she sed although it wasnt perfect she enjoyed it and was glad that i had finally made a move ( we have been going out 4 about 2 months) she is my 1st real girlfriend and that was personally my first kiss with a girl. so what do i do next weekend wen i either go over to her house or she comes over 2 my place. like do i kiss her again and if so wen do i do it. and a little bit of background info is that i take it slow and i have no intention of gettin sexual right away.
2007-02-25 08:48:05 · 13 answers · asked by tnel28 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay i am 15 one year older than you and my boyfriend kissed me to when we was 14 so the next time you visit her kiss her on the cheek and if she smiles then that means she`s wanting to kiss you more then wait later when your kind of alone and kiss her on the lip then if it works you guys would be officially kissing from then to whatever.
2007-02-25 08:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have no intention of gettin sexual at all. Just kiss her on the cheek and then, if it isnt too awkward, on the lips. If she didnt freak out on your 1st kiss she wont freak out on your second.
2007-02-25 08:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by MC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are 14, you are smart to take it slow. Plenty of time. As a woman, I would say that is what most girls worry about--that the boy will want to rush her. If you want to know what to do next, ask her. She'll tell you. :-) There is nothing wrong with asking what the girl wants--in fact, smart boys always ask first.
Good luck!
2007-02-25 08:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by TJB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi! that was a very cute description...look after that first kiss i gess you should act normal and a little romantic...if she said that she ws happy that you made the move then i gess she is interested in another kiss...just try kissing her casually sometimes...and then trust me she will herself make the move to kiss you becoz shell kinda realize that even ure interested in kissing her! and yeah, if im not getting too much, dont even think about sex before 18..seriously! anyway, remember kissing her sometimes..CASUALLY! (try showing htat its a casual kiss ;)) trust me...this worked with my friend too!
2007-02-25 08:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by roxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask too many questions. Just go with the flow and be sure to keep your head where it's supposed to be. Don't be in too much of a hurry to grow up.
2007-02-25 08:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by Reo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep being nice to her. Don't change the way you behave. kiss her again when it feels natural. Don't feel pressured, but once youhave kissed her she sort of let you know it was OK. try not to force anything on yourself or on her.
2007-02-25 08:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by Runa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you when to kiss her because you will feel the wanting to kiss her if the appropriate feeling arises. You can't plan to kiss her or it will get ackward.
2007-02-25 08:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by Jillie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, just kiss when your faces get close somehow. kiss her slow and smooth and maybe use a little bit of tongue...like your barely tasting her mouth
2007-02-25 08:52:31 · answer #8 · answered by xtaticlyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since she enjoyed the kiss, y not give her a kiss? just dont go overboard kissing her.
2007-02-25 08:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what happened with me and my guy is that he kissed me one weekend before leaving my house to go back to his
and then next weekend he waited until right before he left before he kissed me again.
so i guess just do it before you leave her house or before she leaves yours
2007-02-25 08:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by just wondering.. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋