I really like this guy, but when he's with his friends he ignores me. When his friends aren't there, he talks to me like he's known me forever. I like him, but I want to move on. He said he wouldn't go out with me ever again. What do I do??
2007-02-25 08:46:13 · 8 answers · asked by rockerbopper44 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. Get over him. Take your girlfriends out for a NO BOYS night and do the things that you all love best to do, whatever that may be. Then take another night and make it a night to gawk at all the boys that you like and don't like and comment why they are so wonderful or why they are such jerks, bashing may be mean, but it does wonders for your spirit
2007-02-25 08:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by Jillie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel... I went through the same thing not too long ago with my EX-boyfriend. When his friends were around, he completly ignored me. He couldn't even say 2 words to me. At first I thought he would change, but after a month... I was like "Its Over, I can't do this anymore". I felt disrespect, like I wasn't good enough. But he realized how stupid he was acting once I stopped giving him 100% of MY attention. The best advice I can give you is forget about him. Find someone who would just Love to talk to you, and comfort you. Don't be a fool, and stick around- because he won't change.
Good Luck
2007-02-25 08:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asked and answered. The guy doesnt want to go out again. End of story. You cant dwell on this anymore. It's a bit disturbing to read your opening sentence of, "I really like him," and then you say that he doesnt want to go out with you, "ever again."
You sound, no offense, a bit obsessive. You need to forget about this guy. He doesnt like you and he made that clear. There's other fish in the ocean. You'll find someone you like even better. Dont spend any more time on this guy. Avoid him and find someone else.
2007-02-25 08:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by john s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
<---- a little confused... he is a jerk to you in front of his friends, but nice when you are alone...Have you tried asking him why he is acting this way, and inform him that you dont appreciate him "showing off" for his friends. And what do you mean he wouldnt ever go out with you again. Sweetheart, it doesnt sounds like this guys deserves to share the same oxygen as you! good luck
2007-02-25 08:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by Dawneen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl please, count this a blessing! You don't need a jerk like that! You deserve better. It maybe hard right now, but you move on and leave him alone. He seems to be fake. Stop dealing with him, if he happens to call, don't answer. Ignore him, and move on. Start dating again, you will forget about him.
2007-02-25 08:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by ~Secretrose~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that fine with you if he doesn't wanna go out with you, there are plenty of other guys out in the world that wont ignore you one bit, just consider that guy an acquaintance, and someday you will find someone perfect for you.
2007-02-25 08:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he isn't ready for a relationship. he plays too many games. best thing to do to move on is find things that you like to do. he'll become an afterthought.
2007-02-25 08:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by so_sincere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who treats you right.
2007-02-25 09:01:22 · answer #8 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋