I get jealous very easily. and i don't know how to stop. I know things are good with my bf. but i need to get that into my head! pleasee help i can't stop feeling jealous
2007-02-25 08:44:20 · 10 answers · asked by Emily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might feel jealous because something in the past. Maybe your jealous of yourself.
2007-02-25 08:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by rockerbopper44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am exactly the same way!!
I am completly jealous and I have a boyfriend and he has girls as friends that he talks to and that makes me sooo jealous. Just think, he chose you over the other people. So just feel as special as you are and have a lot of trust and honesty and if your still feeling this way confront him and tell him how you feel.
Hope this helps, have an awesome day!
2007-02-25 16:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy come from 2 main reasons. Insucurity and low self estee. THe past usually dictacs how you will respond to certain situations. Your past bf's prob werent all that great so your carrying all this baggage into the new relationship with your current bf. ITs always good to keep your guard up but when it comes into a obsessive sort of thing where your always worrying or thinking of something he said or did in a negative way then that is definatly something that needs to change. ITs good to learn from your past but its never good to let your past dictate you.
2007-02-25 16:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, Ok we all sometimes think that we are not what our man wants. But remember this Who is he kissing and holding hands with. Who is he saying he loves.Be very careful not to run him off. If he does not look at other woman or talks to them you have no reason to worry. But talk to him and ask him for help.If you love him make the teps like you are to make things better. You are a brave person to get help and do not stop ok.Good luck Ray
2007-02-25 16:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by ????????????????????? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is usually a sign of insecurity. Boost your self esteem a bit and your insecurity will go away. If you b/f has an ex, just remember that he is yours now. That's enough to put a smile on any girl's face.
2007-03-05 14:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by 2Beagles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
horrible trait jealousy is! It will all end in tears if you dont try to stop this. Just think to yourself that if he is going to stray there is not a thing you can do about it. You will be a better person and stronger if you just watch and learn. Good luck!!!
2007-02-25 17:19:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just don't feel that you are good enough to deserve his love, so you feel insecure. Work on being more secure within your own self and know that you are worth something. Love and respect yourself. Once you feel secure within yourself you won't feel so jealous.
2007-02-25 16:49:41 · answer #7 · answered by beach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are insecure.
The best way to get over it is to not allow yourself to think of it.
Get involved in other things. When you start to have the jealous thoughts you need to smack yourself with a ruler or something.
Tell yourself, "NO, I will trust him!"
If he abuses your trust - it's just bad on him - it doesn't mean to stop trusting people. :)
2007-02-25 16:48:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am that way too,it's in the womans nature,it's programed into our dna believe it or not.!There are more woman than men on this planet,so we covet our men moreso than they covet us.
Even though we know they would'nt cheat we can't really help those feelings,we just have to push them aside a little!
2007-02-25 16:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by carin1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are insecure.
2007-02-25 16:56:44 · answer #10 · answered by flydives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋