i have a boy friend and i'm not really feeling him but i can't let him go cause he really love me what should i do?
2007-02-25 08:41:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you do not have strong feelings for him, then please, let him go to find someone that does feel strongly for him.
You are being too insecure. You would rather have a bad relationship than no relationship at all. You are worth waiting for someone that is going to make you happy and is someone thato u feel very strongly for. You are worth that, don't you think?
You actions are indeed based off of insecurity. Let him go and be single for a time and try being confident in who you are as a person. You do not need a guy to prove your identity.
Amanda
2007-02-25 08:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the longer you stay with him, the more it will hurt him in the end. Ive been there and done that. I was so afraid of being alone I didnt realize what I was doing to my boyfriend. He'll be hurt for a while, but maybe if you break it off you can still be friends later down the road. If not, you become bitter at the fact that he's "holding" you down...good luck!
2007-02-25 16:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by Dawneen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work on your self you are just scared of being alone you don't care who it is as long as you are not alone and that is sad. Don't you see to really be happy you need to be with some one who takes you to the next level not some one you are have no feeling for. Besides if he loves you more then you love him that is the reason you aren't feeling him. Women never want what they compeletly have. If he is a nice guy and really loves you then grow up see him for who he is a person that loves you and takes you higher if not then move on and work on your self.
2007-02-25 16:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by flydives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just like him as a friend and are worried about never seeing him again. Have some time apart and if you miss him like crazy then you should give it another chance with him. If you dont miss him that much then maybe you should just be friends with him. Its all scary to break up with someone, but sometimes its for the best. Good luck.
2007-02-25 16:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really dont love him then you need to let him go. He may be sad or mad at first, but he will learn to move on and he will find the right girl for him that loves him the same way.
2007-02-25 16:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by JC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest with him. If you don't be honest now then it'll hurt you and him even more later in the future. It is never a good idea to play with someone's emotions. If you want to let him go then do so. If not, then don't. The ball is in your court.
2007-02-25 16:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by rnellwoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that it is for both of u in the long run and that u don't want to hurt him and it would be better if u guys were just friends. if u rn't feeling him than u need to get rid of him cause all this will do is hurt u both in the long run. good luck
2007-02-25 16:47:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to let him go before hes love gats any deeper its not wrong that u feel this way somethings are just not meant too understand and be he will have too move on with his life good luck n take care
2007-02-25 16:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by BROK3NLI3Z20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are afraid of being alone.
You shouldn't be afraid though. You should realize that you have friends and family that loves you and there are a LOT of guys in the world :)
2007-02-25 16:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is how you feel that counts. Don't feel force to stay in because someone loves you.
2007-02-25 16:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋