whenever i see a certain guy i just cant stop thinking about him.
i see him more often now as he works in the town where i am on a course and when i am on my dinner break he always seems to walk past me somewhere.
i try not to see him even tho i want to coz i have a boyfriend.
how can i stop these feelings?
its like having a crush on the guy from the year above at school. and i really dont want it.
2007-02-25 08:39:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dated him for a month when i was 17 bt it didnt work out
2007-02-25 08:40:37 · update #1
im not cheating on my fella. i wouldnt.
but the old feelings for this other guy keep coming back
2007-02-25 08:45:12 · update #2
Honesty is the best policy. Talk with your boyfriend about it. Be direct.
2007-02-25 08:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by th_779 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If u wouldn't cheat ur bf then forget about him. Time will heal ur feelings. U said u really don't want the crush like feeling 4 the guy then it's best to avoid him whenever u c him or he's around u.
2007-02-25 09:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say, is that, if everything was rosy with your boyfriend, any thoughts about the ex just wouldn't last long, but since you are fixated on the ex, it's telling me, you are not 100% committed to your current relationship. So stop thinking about the ex, and just have a good think about the current bf, and if he is special, if not, end it and then see what the future holds.
2007-02-25 08:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even call it a crush. You two went out so it's only natural that you feel this way when you see him nowadays. But don't ruin what you have with your boyfriend especially if you don't know what's going through the mind of the other guy. I wish you the best!
2007-02-25 08:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by Lania 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curiousity killed the cat! You know what this is, don`t you? This has nothing to do with love, but a deja vue-kind-of-thing. All you want to know is wether he is the same guy now as when he kissed you when you were 17. Don`t be foolish. But to your friend now it is fake relationsship, so I think you need to brake up, and be on your own for a while. Don`t use people. Love them or leave them.
2007-02-25 09:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by unanski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously means u aint happy, ive jus been in a similar position wiv & dumped the guy coz if ur even thinkin of some1 else he aint the 1 4 u
2007-02-25 08:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by soooo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your best not to think about it too much. you are probably just remembering the good times you had with him,. Tell yourself you have moved on with your life and think about all the positive things that have come out of your current relationship.
2007-02-25 09:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just feelings and as long as you don't act on them it's fine. As you say it's probably just a crush and it will wear off soon. :o)
2007-02-25 09:25:09 · answer #8 · answered by farleyjackmaster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember you have a bf and it i only a crush ppl get them all the time dont worri about it
2007-02-25 08:44:35 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he's probrably thinking the same thing, so to solve this problem, think about how it 'didn't work out' the first time. If it was because he was too immature, than he's probrably over that by now. And then, think about how he distracts you from your actual boyfriend. things will work out fine either wat.
2007-02-25 08:44:30 · answer #10 · answered by pnogal32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋