There are these two guys at school that I have to choose between.
1. Jake: Slightly mysterious, nice, cute, slightly funny, and always seems to be happy. I don't know if he likes me or not, but I think hes a good guy. The cons about him are that he is harder to talk to, I do not know him that well, and can be kind of exclusive at times.
2. Paul: Very goofy, romantic when alone with him, funny, smart, and easy to talk to about almost anything. I know that he likes me, and has for a while. However he is not very good looking, one of his parents is around me and my friends a lot at school (conversational), and he can be slightly open at times.
I do not know which one to go after. I can either go after a guy who I do not know very much about, and can be rude sometimes but mostly extremly nice, and might not like me. Or a guy that is good friends with me and my friends and is nice to me, and likes me. But can be a bit weird at times.
Please help me decide. Thank you very much!
2007-02-25 08:37:44 · 10 answers · asked by right 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st of there is NO choice here. You know that you are more compatabile with the 2nd choice. Paul is the adorable guy, he may not win "bachlor of the year" But he's got a good heart it sounds like and really, do looks matter--_NO and that's not just a thing that fat people say, it's honestly true. I dated the hot jocks and sexy men of school and they were full of themselves rude and always looking to see if there was something better, that's when I realized that the looks don't matter it's how well they treat me, damn you should be treated like a princess not a doormat.
2007-02-25 08:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jillie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you choose, are you certain that either one of these guys are going to choose you...have you discussed with any of these guys what kind of relationship they are looking for from you...you talk about what they are like and how they look but you've mention nothing of if the both of you have the same opinion on what kind of relationship you want together once you've chosen him.
Hon, you can choose a man and then have him get rid of you two days later simply because he wasn't looking for what your looking for...Try picking someone based on similar goals...that should make your decision less stressful.
Good Luck.
2007-02-25 16:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by chyna0069 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with a little wierd if somebody is nice to you and easy to talk to and get along with? The decision is yours and I know you'll have fun making it...but hey!!! there are more than 2 guys in the world!!! I know that you'll enjoy the pursuit of happiness this is America. God Bless, Martha S.
2007-02-25 16:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by Martha S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should go out w/ paul. u know he likes u. hes also easy 2 talk 2 which can be a good thing @ times. i dont know, cuz im a guy. its ur decision
2007-02-25 16:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find out first of all if Jake liked me, and if he doesn't than you really have no other choice but Paul. Pick whom you like hanging out with the most.
2007-02-25 16:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks arent everything, but it is nice to have something "pretty" to look at in the morning, but it sounds like you are more enthusiastic about Paul, and he sounds like he has a great personality and is willing to treat you the way you deserve to be treated, but I really feel this is a decision you should follow your heart on....who are we to tell you what your heart wants? ;)
2007-02-25 16:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by Dawneen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1
2007-02-25 16:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for jake if things dont work out with him its okay. but if thinks dont work out with paul it can ruin your friendship.
2007-02-25 16:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by missJMAC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd go for paul
just because you know him a little more
and he likes you
who cares if he isn't the most attractive person..
2007-02-25 16:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by just wondering.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go for Paul even though he's not a very good looking guy but at least he a very good man.Jake is a good looking guy but wat if he cheat on u ?
2007-02-25 16:49:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋