My mom only seems to hate me and my sister. She loves my brother. She calls us names like B@tch, and sl*ts, and expects us to do everything. she starts fights with us for no reasons. and when she calls my dad to tell him a bunch of lies on the phone she laughs at us and sticks her tongue at us while she's calling him.
But when my dad is around she acts like she loves us and that gets on my damn nerves.
I had enough with it. I dont love her i cant love someone like her cause she breaks my heart every day i dont know what to do anymore.
2007-02-25 08:19:01 · 9 answers · asked by Juggalette 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ignore her. she is obviously very insecure about herself and so sometimes to get one step closer you need to move three steps back. So basically that means that maybe you arent getting along at the moment and you need to give your relationship a break. it would be better because then she is going to wonder what she did wrong and then she wil come running to you to see what she can do to get your love back. trsut me
2007-02-25 09:21:14 · answer #1 · answered by Lisi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother sounds immature and perhaps mentally unstable. She is definitely verbally abusive and you and your sister need help. Talk to the counselor at your school. If nothing is done to help you, contact Child Protective Services. You have each other to verify what was said by your mother. I think you do love your mother (as you should) but I can understand that you don't like the way she is acting. She may need more help than you and your sister. Can you talk to your father privately about your problem? Try that if he would be helpful.
2007-02-25 08:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can afford it, (they are not very expensive) invest in a voice activated tape recorder. Let you father hear how she is talking to you. Write your Dad a letter, and explain what you have said here. She is being extremely mentally abusive. You and your sister deserve to be loved and respected just like everyone else. If you give your Dad proof of her behavior, maybe he will be able to intervene and get something done about it.
2007-02-25 08:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does your mom drink, do drugs, etc......this could be a factor, she may be depressed, and need professional help....if none of these things seem to do anything then you need to record her antics and so fourth...for you to show to your dad.....if he does not help you girls out....then you are going to have to take this proof to you local child welfare office. No child should have to go through this....one last thing.....remember this when you and your sister have children....and don't treat you children the same way. All children are blessings.....there is a reason for you being here....you are loved.....hugs to you and your sister....we will keep you in our prayers.
2007-02-25 08:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other people.
If it's not too much money, I think you should tape record everything she says to you.
If you're old enough, I think it's time for you to move out if your mother treats you this way.
If that still doesn't work, I suggest you hold counseling. Just try and sit her down to talk to her, and let everything out.
But NEVER say something like "You always..." Just say "For a long time, you've been harrassing us hurtfully..."
2007-02-25 08:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by ROX AY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down in front of her and explain to your dad what is going on. Don't continue to let her get by with this. If you have to hide a small recorder and record what is happening and when you confront them and she lies play it for your dad. Bless you, and remember as long as you are really trying...You don't deserve this.
2007-02-25 08:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by beebee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...How old is your mother? She definately has a serious problem and needs psychiatric help. Tell your father what she is doing and confide in him. Tell him how you feel, and together you need to confront your mother about this. Are you parents still married?
If this type of abuse continues call the social services and tell them you are being abused.
Good luck!
2007-02-25 08:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by multipure417278 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't exactly know what you're feeling and I can't do anything about it, but do anything but hurt yourself. You may feel bad now, but maybe if you talk to a close friend about everything that's been bothering you, you will feel better. I just hope that you see that you are a wonderful person...everyone makes mistakes..so just try and find a way to make you feel better.
2007-02-25 08:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by lblumenberg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your mom may have a jealousy problem.......Talk with your pastor or with a counselor at school and be truthful..
2007-02-25 08:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by Carol G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋