im 24, well i got this friend who looks ok, the way he gets a girl to go out with him is he'll walk up to the hottest girl he sees and will say how gorgeous she is or how breath taking she looks and so on. and for some reason they like to hear that then the next thing iknow is their in the bedroom. how is this possible? i mean he doesnt look that good he's ok. i asked him how he's able to do that and he told me its how you structure your sentences and how you speak with the girl and how smooth you are or funny.
is this true? i mean, if i did that i would feel weird
2007-02-25 08:15:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-25 08:31:38 · update #1
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2007-02-25 08:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by juli_jugz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the girl. Some girls are taken by just one compliment and some sweet talking. For others, it's going to take alot more than that. Besides, there are girls out there that really are looking for a physical relationship and nothing more. And, some guys are the same.
I, on the other hand, want more than that, so that type of action really wouldn't work well with me at all. If you felt weird doing that, then it is probably because you want more than just someone that looks good or will get in bed with you. You have your way of finding girls and your friend has his. Let him do his thing and you do yours. Besides, it's all in what type of girl you want and what type of relationship you are looking for.
Amanda
2007-02-25 16:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably his charisma. If you've got charisma it doesn't matter what you look like.
I have a guy friend who isn't that good looking but he's ok, like you say about your friend, however he has girls at his feet, not quite sleeping with him, but just wooed by him and he's not even a smooth talker!
It's just his charisma. His best mate is my boyfriend of two years and he's got me around his little finger. However, his arrogance shows and some girls will put a hand to his face and walk away.
It's annoying and slightly irritating too, but that's the way it is.
Some girls will lap it up, others will shove it right back in the guys face!
2007-02-25 16:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by katkitten135 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Self confidence is very attractive. Present yourself as confident, not cocky ,and you're on the right track. If you don't feel confident, fake it. She'll never know and soon you'll feel as confident as you look. Just don't try to impress with tall tales bcz we usually know. Don't take her to bed right away if you want a relationship. Leave her wanting more. If you aren't looking for more, don't forget a glove, Girls that easy have probably been around. Good luck
2007-02-25 16:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by jenmul73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confidence is a big part, i mean dont get cockey just u kno, act like you know what youre talking about (not supposed to be an insult) if u dress nice, talk nice, and especially listen to what she has to say, youre good to go...
but if all ur looking for is a night in bed with someone other than your teddy bear (lol) u might not get far at all.
2007-02-25 16:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by elementamigo92 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy doesn't seem like a jerk or like hes just saying it to get in the bedroom i would give him a chance. going up to a girl and saying to her face how gorgeous or whatever shows confidence, which is pretty sexy.
2007-02-25 16:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by =) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he ever came up to me and said stuff like that out of nowhere, i would assume he's jus tryin to get somethin. I think that girls who fall for this are stupid and they have no respect for themselves. if you want to do this, and get a girl with no self respect, then go ahead and do it. if you want a good girl who respects herself and has a good head on her shoulders, then u should try a different approach.
2007-02-25 16:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls would be offended because of this stranger but I would find it flattering!!
but psshht...I would not go 2 bed with him unless we were in a 2 YEAR RELASONSHIP!!
2007-02-25 16:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by Loveeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls like outgoing guys but u can't be all over them either, u have to be mysterious in a way,they will keep them guessing what your next move will be,being funny is a must.GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-25 16:20:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry but that s true if i talk to a guy i want him to talk smooth or funny
2007-02-25 16:19:23 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's true - but mostly it's how funny he is :)
The way to a woman's heart is through making her laugh :)
2007-02-25 16:37:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋