If you did good or not, really depends on how you feel and not on the circumstances of yours or his actions. You say he played with your emotions and you expressed in an emotional manner only showed him that he can still make you emotional. It would have been better to ignore him and walk away showing that what he does or says has no effect on you what-so-ever. As it is he feels like he can effect you emotionally so may continue to be present in your life to some degree. If you want to not feel shallow then if a time should come where you have another issue with the guy then ignoring what he says will show him that no matter what he says or does has no effect on you will show you are over him completely and this will keep you with an upper hand. Best of luck
2007-02-25 10:12:22
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answered by Savage 7
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I think that it wasn't too shallow. It will show him that he cant treat you like that. After a while he will realize what he's done and how much he's sorry and he misses you. The thing is, you cant keep this up forever. After a while you should talk to him again and see wuts up. He's a cheating and disrespectful person, so if you ever decide to get back with him, keep this in mind.
2007-02-25 16:15:38
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answered by Anonymous
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you did good girl he screwed you over and you told him like it is so dont feel bad he deserved it and we have to be b!tches sometimes to show whos boss so u did good. so go out there and find a guy thats not an idiot
<3much love 2 ya<3
2007-02-25 16:19:05
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answered by Daniland. 2
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17 or 47 . . . it's no different here. I'm 50 and like right where I'm at in life...I stand in my power yet am still a very decent, vibrant woman of a dear and gentle heart.
What I heard you expressed to him was a young woman who stood in her power and spoke your voice and you know your space.
You were not a *****, you were are a young woman who values herself and the company the keeps.
I adore, value, respect and cherish men...yet I won't let them mess with me or my heart either.
Keep true to yourself...always.
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2007-02-25 16:26:15
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answered by onelight 5
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You go girl! You did a right thing. And to the fact of being a ***** is all good because we all are.....its just some of us still dont know that yet. It is perfectly natural for a female.....so do you girl!
2007-02-25 16:19:07
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answered by BK thang 5
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I think after the way he did you, he was luck to just get yelled at!!! Don't try to get back at him because then you will look like a *****! Just play it cool and try to ignore any other confrontation.
2007-02-25 16:15:49
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answered by u_wish_214 2
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You sounded like a strong woman!
2007-02-25 16:14:10
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answered by NYGirl 3
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well u should have atleast heard what he wanted to say! he naybe wanted to apologize or somethin....anywayz i dont think u did the perfect thing call him back or tell him @ scool what he wanted to say if he says somethin stupid then yes u did the right thing but i think u were too hard on him.
2007-02-25 16:17:46
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answered by diana 1
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actually u did kinda perfecrt because imagina: He trtied to play u off.oh wait!he did!.so if u give him another chance he'll do the same.u didnt sound like a biootch.unless u told him those words screaming.
idk i gess that's my answer:D
2007-02-25 16:14:44
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answered by I ROCK UR WORLD 1
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u did very good...... he played with ur emotions, so now u dont have 2 have anything 2 do with him...... u are being an independent woman, showing him that guys dont make u, u make urself.....
2007-02-25 16:14:25
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answered by bbydOll 2
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