Hi, I'm 18..i'll be 19 soon Just so you know i'm a graduated student.This guy said he wanted to stop talking to me bc i wasnt affectionate enough but now i wanted to be and i know it could be too late. I havnt heard from him or saw him in 2months but the other day he called me and wanted me to hang out and bring a friend for his friend. I did and i hated it cause we acted exactly like ''friends'' he didnt try nething sexual with me, no touchy feely nothing. i guess he was flirting a lil and u can tell he missed me a lil. but next time he calls i want to say'' no i'm inlove with u and it hurts so i cant hang out'' & hopefully he'll give it time then come crawling back. or yeah go hang out with him and act like it aint no thing but that hurts cause it does bother me. i really want to love him and be with him. what shall i do?
2007-02-25 08:08:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds simple: tell him how you feel, and go from there. Be honest, let him know that you really do want to be with him, and do all the affectionate things that he said you didn't do before. Don't make him come begging, but don't beg yourself. Just get it out into the open, and run with it.
2007-02-25 08:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait around for his call, because what if he doesn't call for another 2 months? I suggest that you call him up today or night, and just simply explain to him that you have not gotten over him. Let him know that you still have strong feelings for him. Tell him that you were just afraid of moving too fast, that's why you did not show too much affection. Tell him that you were afraid of giving your all to him, because you were in fear of getting hurt, but now you know he is the one, and you want to continue to take things further. Let him know that when you guys hung out the other day, it really bothered you that he was not giving you the attention that you wanted, tell him that you expected him to be more friendly towards you, rather than distant. Tell him you really miss him. Ask him if he's seeing anyone at the moment, and if not, hint to him that you would like to rekindle your relationship.
Good luck.
2007-02-25 16:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by Loves It<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it baby
2007-02-25 16:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋